I did a legba and Freda ritual almost 10 months ago (if not longer) and I hadn't heard anything from my target not a peep. Then earlier this month he contacts me and is sweet loving remorseful and apologetic about what happened between us.
Then today he gets upset and says we are through there is no more us and doesn't want to deal with me anymore.
I'm confused as hell and I don't have a clue what's going on. Please help me tell me something
Something similar happened to me a couple years ago. I was also doing protection work along with the other candles. I found out that he is a diagnosed narcissist. I was being protected from him but didn't know at the time. I don't know what is happening in your case but just offering a perspective that right now maybe you're being protected.
We can’t tell you why he contacted you maybe try and get a reading done I will DM you if you don’t know anyone just let me know
Get a reading done. No one here can really tell you what any of that means or why it happened. They can only make guesses. They don't have access to what is going on in your life, spiritually, environmentally, personally, etc.
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Then why would he come back in the first place?
If it's his free will why not just leave me alone?
I hadn't bothered him
I hadn't said one word to him
He could have just left me alone
Why come back?
Why do this to my heart again?
When doing love work, you have to be constant. But maybe you guys aren’t meant to be. Spirit can only do some much, everyone has free will.