Help yall...What should I do?? Please read

Ok guys im new here. Im open to all suggestions. I actually feel desperate. Me and my boyfriend well ex was together "relationship" but he was always slow moving and very up and down and it annoyed me. But I dealt with it because I truly love him and we have the same interest. This past month I notice him changing, always in the phone with someone, being sneaky like when I called. So I prayed and it was revealed to me. I got home to watch HULU and another woman profile was on my TV. He been by another woman house. And they had been spending time together. I was very heart broken and confused. He was moving very fast with her tho spending alot of time. And talking different to me when I confronted him. I felt like she did something to him. I have spoken with my spiritual advisor and she told me what was going on and told me he will be back to me. The girl did something to him to make him like her. She says the girl is making him move really fast which isn't normal cause he is a go with the flow guy. But he will soon leave her alone. He always watches me on social media. It hurt cause I felt like this guy suppose to be my husband one day. But he let this girl get too close to him. My advisor burn something and the next day I think they were having problems cause of a Fb story he posted. Then he called like nothing happened but I was so mad I went crazy on him and told him dont talk to me again unless he serious about me.. It hurt to say that cause I miss him, but I can't be a fool. I went from the only chick, to him trying to make me a side chick. So I have purchased the Seperation candle, Un hex, Halo, Protection, and Lovers bundle. My question is should I still do all this work even if he comes back? I think there will be a delay in the candles cause they are hand made but what if he come back before I get the candles. Should I still do them all? And please share yall stories to me about yall situations..I love to read them. Thanks yall