Hey y’all. So I have a question should I burn any candles to make someone respect my boundaries and stay in their place or should I just let the universe stay in control. I’m standing firm just unsure if I should maybe sweeten them up or do as I say or just let it unfold naturally.
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You can even use cloak
Hard to say because a lack of respect for boundaries is a lack of respect for you. I would use stay the stop candle and domination.
Thanks sunny these are good pairings. I’m going to use these candles! @Heart of the Harbor I would at least use sweetening and mars. I had also wanted to let things flow naturally and allow the person a chance to do the right thing on their own but unfortunately for them sweetening and mars wasn’t enough and this person crossed boundaries in ways that affected my physical and mental well-being so I had to use war and stfu on them also. War acted quickly and I was glad to have it in my collection for a few months before ever needing it. Do as I say is a great idea too
I'd use Mars (spelled) to protect boundaries and/or 6th POMars to protect you AND reverse the enemies weapon (in case they do attempt to cross the line). Prioritize protection.
If you want to layer afterwards, then consider the "Stop" candle or 1POSaturn for dominating -- and only if you need to stay in relation with this person i.e. boss, co-worker, blood relative.
I think the sale is still happening right now and one of the promo candles has Mars and Stop together. Might be powerful for your situation.