I wrote a month ago about my target texting me to have sex at 3 am. I posted the text in the comments. I've been asking him to spend time with me and last night we got into an argument. I asked him if he cared about me and he said no. He said he doesn't want me. He claims he can get other women. Im going to finish burning Rekindle and see what happens. Im ready to move forward and find my husband. My target isn't worth it anymore. If he comes back after Rekindle thats fine but after that im moving on. Im tired of arguing with him.
In the future, You should blur out someone's name and phone number before you post something publicly
@Leslyn Coral Hearts Hey Leslyn I just read your post and all the comments the text messages etc. I would never judge any man or woman because we all have been through that phase of dealing with somebody we just can’t get over. In my honest opinion I think you should do some healing and self love work because this isn’t healthy. No matter how many candles you burn you can’t make a person love or want to be in a relationship with you. Right now all you are showing him is that he can treat you any kind of way and you would be okay with that as long as he is paying you some attention. You are worth more than an occasional fuck (excuse my French) here and there. You deserved to be loved properly and by a man that actually wants to love you. But you have to start with YOU first!! Mirror the type of love you want to receive. Mirror how you want to be treated. Sis he told you that you fucked up any chance that y’all had of being together. Acknowledge your role in this and move on from it. I mean honestly reading the messages made me cringe like just imagine being in a relationship with him he’s going to tear you down even more. Please work on you and loving you wholeheartedly. A man will come. Always remember when you pray,summon,conjure, chant, wish,hope etc for something or someone to come to you just make sure you are prepared to receive it!! Self love is the best love ❤️ 💫✨💖
Girl what more of the truth do you want?
Let this man gooooo he dont want you. Focus on your healing and self love sis💯
I don’t think you should waste your money on him after he’s blatantly telling you he doesn’t want you, move forward babe you’re too pretty to let a man treat you like that
@Leslyn Coral Hearts sorry u had to go through this with a heartless Man , but love its definitely 👍 time for u to move on .. your ancestors and the spirits are showing you he isnt the one for you love
@Leslyn Coral Hearts those texts say it all.... whew.... he said nothing wrong. Take a step back and look at the situation.. whew. That’s it that’s all. If u can’t see it ... we can’t help you
Don’t throw rekindle away, just him! Hugs, darlin’.
Thank you for all your advice. I appreciate it. He seriously doesn't deserve me and im going to throw Rekindle away. It sucks because most of my candles were for him. I know how he really feels so im not wasting time on him anymore.
@Leslyn Coral Hearts can I ask ... what do you want? What do you want from Will? What do you want from us on this post? How can we support you. He keeps telling you he doesn’t want to be with you, he says he is too busy, he overslept. What do you want? Every person on this post has been sympathetic and told you how beautiful you are and that you deserve more. We suggested different candles, mantras and just some sista girl ... he is an asshole talk. What else do you want from this situation? How can we help you because what we are suggesting to you is not the answer you are seeking.
I brought up his ex girlfriend and he said he looked at her picture because it was the anniversary of her death. I still think its so weird that he was thinking about her while having sex with me. I told him he needed to heal before his next relationship.
@LC Monyaé @Leslyn Coral Hearts all love. You have to be true to yourself AND love yourself. We all go through our own journey. I wish you the best.... your amazing future relationship with yourself and the future lucky guy will be amazing ... you are on the path of manifesting... think positive and forward.❤️❤️❤️👍🏾
He told me he fell asleep the day we made plans to hang out and that's how he ended up texting me a few days later to come over at 3am. He definitely saw all my texts he just didn't want to hang out with me.
Totally get your point @LC Monyaé ... but for me when I see it... he wanted some ass ( sorry if this offends anyone but this is how I would talk to a friend or someone seeking advice- also I know NO ONE asked me for my advice... and I am clearly over stepping my bounds) she did something with him and now she wants him to do more and that wasn’t apart of the agreement. I would be irritated also... like WTF.... and I bet you he thought about it awhile before he texted her or called her because of the time length in between. They both knew what each other was about and they are both at fault but I’m not going to lie to the girl and tell her she sounds co dependent ... and she needs to check that so she can stop allowing herself to be treated this way. Also I’m a girls girl ... want to say that now... I’m always rooting for a sis... but when you are acting suspect or ulterior motives .... I have to speak up. None of my business... but thanks for letting me be nosy. 👍🏾
One more thing.... i see a lot of bashing of the guy.... we should NOT because...if you read back the texts he said she approached him for FWB in 2019.... friends with benefits... so apparently he was horny and he decided to reach out and claim the coupon she gave out.... she decided to have sex or hang out and now she wants to see if they can be in a relationship or if he has feelings for her and want to hang out...... you created this.... be careful what you ask for.... you got it. Now he is an asshole?? Nope. We have all been crazy for somebody ... but we usually had a friend or other person to open our eyes and call out our crazy. I’m that friend for you today. Leave that man alone, don’t be mad... learn from it. Also work on yourself for YOU. much love - me
My beautiful conjure sister. Move forward. Healing and move along babe. I wouldn’t even use rekindle on him he is not worth it. Love on you and block his butt!! No warning just stop responding to him
“Thank you, NEXT”
Lovingly I say this- focus on yourself... seriously..... focus on bettering you and then on your journey to become a better version of yourself you will find ur life partner. All the sayings and songs are true .... focus on you and ur love will come. We have all been there. ❤️❤️... it’s ok to cry, be hurt, be mad.... but that man told you he doesn’t want you... and that’s ok.... because you want someone to adore you ... we all do. But respect yourself ALWAYS
Let it go sis