I have a lovers return bundle, I am going to use legba and erzulie freda, then work in order of the lovers return. My boyfriend and I split essentially due to us falling on hard times and both having to move back home, the grandmother he is living with doesn’t like me, and where that was hard to deal with before when we lived together, it’s put a huge gap between us currently. We don’t hate eachother… we Still very much have love for each other but our spark has faded due to not being able to see each other as much. are there any candles I should be using though such as a healing or halo type or blockage candle Before the others? I’d rather be safe than sorry
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I would never risk starting this expensive journey without starting with unhex.... it removes things the others cannot, and you never know if you have generational blockages, meaning your born with it it’s passed from bloodline, if an ancestor was cursed
I would do Separate burns, once for yourself and let it burn at least six hours, snuff, and then light for target, burn at least 6hrs
Use sweetening on grandma too if you can... sweeten her up to you, it’s one of the top fave candles of the conjure family cuz it works soo well 👌🏽... also could use STFU candle on her 🤐, so she’s not getting in the way by filling his head with nonsense...
Always start with unhex, it removes blockages and ensures you begin with a clean slate and removes any magic that may have been done on you or him in the past. It’s the best way to ensure you’re not wasting time and money burning candles before clearing the relationship and people involved of any unknown curses or negative energies attached, these will block your blessings. Then do halo & or crossroads, before beginning lovers return work. There’s a beginner’s bundle which includes all of these. It’s best to do these first so that you can get the most out of your work & get your desired outcome. Burn Unhex for yourself, and for him separately, & also for the relationship. You can put all 3 in your petition, you can have 3 targets per candle, in your case it would be you, your ex, & the relationship, these are your targets that need unhex-ing first. Good luck ✨💫