What is unhex doing to me 🥴

Alright so I’ve had my unhex candle for about 2 weeks now. I haven’t burned it since this quarantine along with this toddler of mine. So I do believe I’ve had a hex on me for at least 3 years now. Ive dealt with depression, anxiety, keep falling behind financially all the typical signs. My emotions of course have been up and down, mind you I haven’t burned the candle yet. Bad lows, good highs. Now the father of my daughter and I have been separated for about a year now and he just admitted that he has a gf and wanted to know if I would like to work things out. I haven’t had ANY interest in this man since I was pregnant. I stayed in the relationship longer than planned for my daughter. He’s been trying to get his family bk every since. But now all of a sudden, I’m extremely jealous 😩🥴. I had some choice words with him, and I am so hurt behind it. Like this shit is crazy. I always figured he had someone this whole time, I absolutely didn’t care. But now I’m hurt hurt. Like I’ve been transported bk in time from when we were in a relationship. I’m to the point where I want to ruin that relationship. Is this apart of it cause whew!! I know that man thinks I’m crazy, going from not giving af about him to feeling like he’s cheating on me. Hell yall think he did some work on me ?😂 P.s. in literally bout to ruin that relationship