What should I light next?

Woo! Thanks for this great information!!!! I’m sure the results are exciting to watch happen after making one.

Yep, you can use a photo. His hair works too. A sock or underwear...

Thank you sooooo much !!!! What if I only have a photo . He has more of my things with him at his place than I do with me at my place is that okay ? @Aries Sun

There are multiple online resources available on a hoodoo honey jar. You want to fill it with herbs for love, sexual attraction, domination, protection, and prob fidelity. Catnip, Orris root, licorice, damiana, cinnamon, bay leaves, basil, patchouli, lavender etc. then you want to add conjure oils if you have any or make your own to enhance it. Then you add his personal concerns; bodily fluids, belongings, photo. Draw up a petition and there are different ways to do that based on the purpose of your honey jar. I’ve done one for my relationship, and one for my man. The one for my relationship is focused more on our union- love & commitment, fidelity, passion, & protection. The latter is more to work on his “nature”. Here’s a link https://brianasaussy.com/how-to-make-a-honey-jar-with-pictures/ but a honey jar with some deadly attraction, loyalty, obsession, maybe a Venus candle too- you’ll be set. I’d always recommend a protection candle too like Mars for your Union once you complete your work and you see results.

Halo and healing if you haven't then rekindle

Halo should be first. If you don’t have it, I would buy it before doing any other candle work to clear all negativity and blockages

Yep, sweeten, rekindle, obsession, then mars to protect your work/union

Thank you!!! Keeping the faith for sure!

I think sweetening, rekindle,obsession, and Mars would be a good order like the one you listed. I know it's easy to get nervous and overwhelmed but try to keep calm and have faith! Spirit always has our backs