Hi everyone. This is my first post on the forum! I’ve been buying from Lala for over a year actually from my sister’s account but I have made my own acc. to post on here.
I need your help everyone.
In early to mid April, I met a guy at a bar. Normally I try hard to avoid guys at bars because I haven’t always had the best experiences with them before, but something about him felt different. We spent over 3 hours talking to eachother and I really liked getting to know him and learn about him. He was always soooooooo sweet with me and he took the time to listen when all guys I had met in my life would make everything about themself. Its so much better bcs. he actually seemed truthfully interested in everything I said.
We trade numbers and start to go on dates. these dates are unlike any ive had before ever. truly perfect!! I considered using my deadly attraction candle and l’amour but ultimately decided against it bcs. I was hoping deep down that I wouldnt need that for him to like me. And I was deff right. From the very start he would always do the most for me. He would go outside of his way to make me so happy as possible and go to any length to do so much things for me. Like I could definitly tell that what he felt for me was authentic
Over these last few months, I realized that I had deff developed feelings as well. I got two separate readings done by some friends I have met thru here to see if he was being honest about his intentions with me and his feelings too. I deff opened my eyes to a lot of things and I think for a while, I thought everything he did was too good too be true bcs. I had never experienced it before with a previous boyfriend. That night, I spent alot of time before sleeping thinking about my feelings for him and I realized that I liked him a lot more then my mind was willing to let me know.
Everyday he tells me how pretty I am and how i am so much to him and how much he wants to be with me and I always make him feel great. sometimes its the nicest things any one has ever told me before, and when I leave him, I spend the time riding the bus to get home about to cry out of happiness because of it. It is hard for me to believe it. and to believe that he is real and that I really mean so much to him.
he has been nothing but perfect too me and I know deep-down I want him, but I am scared I will ruin things and cannot give him everything he deserves bcs of how great a person he is. I sat him down once and told him this because I always try to be truthful. He listened and understood me patiently. He hugged me and put his hand on my chin to tell me that he knows me enough to know that I will not ruin things. He also says to me that he does not care how much I give him bcs that I am already enough for him. Noone has ever told me this before. I know that he loves me but he has not said it to me yet. And I really think that deep down, I love him too. He makes my life so good And bright.
I am just scared that I am not enough for him. What do you guys think I should do? What candle would you all recomend best for confidence and trust in myself to know that I will not accidentally hurt him. Because I really want this to work. And him saying that I was enough for him and he didnt care how much I give him made me the happiest woman you can imagine! I just don’t want to ruin things because he is so pure
First of all you are enough, so let that part go!!!! I wouldn't do any work seem as if things are going fine , also don't forget that as along as you have the candles their energy comes off regardless especially if your energy is good!
Healing and bella for sure for confidence and getting past not feeling enough. I know i will sound like a broken record but if its good on his end just be good on your. Also sweeten yourself to him. So you can receive love and the compliments with ease
Loyalty, fidelity