Okay so today just right now my target called me after him telling me that the reason why he was feeling down was because this weekend he went to Las Vegas With his police academy buddy and he met a girl at the pool and he said he has sex with her and he admitted to me that he felt this euphoria feeling that he has never felt 😭 . This dude spilled the whole tea and told me more than I should have known.
He said he couldn’t believe he was telling me this . He Started crying and I asked him why he was crying 😭 he said because he felt he met his soulmate in Las Vegas and mind you this is during while I had just finished crossroads on his ass so I wonder if this caused him to meet someone . He told me the girl lives in another state and hasn’t messaged him so he said he has no clue if she saw him as a one night stand , but that he can’t forget her 😭😭😭😭😭. He said if things Don’t work out with them that He can continue to see if him and I can work out . I live 6 hrs from him and this woman who he met lives in another state . So what do I doooooo now??? That Lamour candle I lit for him days ago hasn’t even kicked in at all and I’m afraid this new girl that he met in Vegas might call him in a. Few days . He hasn’t heard from her because he got home from Vegas today and she is still in Vegas . Y’all I need help what advice do y’all give me. I really liked this dude and I told him , damn you sure didn’t think of my feelings while you were messing with her on Sunday night 😩😩😩
Should I continue my love work and cloak this new girl who he met on a one night stand in Vegas? He said he hasn’t heard from her since Sunday when they had sex and they exchanged numbers . He had the nerve to tell me he might message her this Wednesday once her Vegas vacation is over so he can know if she liked him or not .
Hello my love. I am so sorry you are in this situation and I can only imagine the pain this man is causing you with his reckless behaviour. Let me start by saying that - as a trained relationship professional - this man is exhibiting clear signs of disorganised attachment behaviour. Let me me explain this to you - it is NOT normal or okay to “fall in love” with someone you have met or slept with once. This is not love, it is unhealthy attachment and love bombing, which will last all of five minutes until the situation actually starts developing and he switches back to his avoidant mode and runs away. Which I am sure he has also done to you as this is usually a pattern. So he is not in love with her, he is clearly just using this connection to not sit with his own pain and his own feelings which he needs to heal so he doesn’t have to do any work on himself. All this to say that rest assured that he will not “change for her” or suddenly become everything he wasn’t for you - he may do initially but then he will inevitably revert back to his old ways. Secondly on a spiritual note, I would do some attraction work on yourself (DA, Bella, Jezebel, 3rd POV) and also some self esteem work as I’m sure this man has burned yours to the ground with his immature behaviour (Esteem, L’Amour, Erzulie Freda). And then take it from there. I’m happy to answer any questions you might have and wish you all the best!
My advice is to let go spirit sent you the truth you asked for…he’s not for you 💛🧡✨
Wow this is deep… where ya’ll ever actually talking/dating? I‘m only asking because seems more like ya’ll where cool like friends. Even with the truth candle seems like he’s talking to one of his friends. I’m sorry things didn’t work out the way you wanted and all the commenters gave great advice especially with needing to heal. I saw someone on the forum post about burning all of these candles on a target but she had previously posted he was physically abusive then she deleted it and now she in love🙄. Don‘t do anything out of desperation spirit can also feel it and it won’t last. Maybe getting a reading from a trusted reader will solidify that he’s not for you and then you can truly move on. I wish you the best…it’s a good man out there for you.💕
This is why I like to comment on this forum because I get peoples opinions. I just ask myself this one question, and what I ask myself is then what’s the whole point of doing candles ? I mean these are spelled candles , isn’t the whole point of love work candles to make them do what you want? I feel down. I was excited to just go on and continue the work and give him no choice but I’m trying to listen to everyone’s opinion 😞
I very rarely comment on here but I felt moved to do so. From the multiple posts you’ve made in my opinion I feel like you are romanticizing this connection you have with this guy. Him saying that if things don’t work out for them then he’ll see if you and him will work out means he’s not interested in you, and/or you’re not his first choice. He put you on the back burner. I personally would not be pursuing this any further if it was me in this situation. Please step back from him and focus on doing work for yourself. Unhex halo healing mars bella still etc. I mean absolutely no disrespect. Feel free to message me if you want someone to talk to. I am rooting for you.
Hey love, its clear as day you are forcing this connection, its harder to do work on him because he never had genuine feelings or attraction to you and sex does make doing magic on someone easier, so if that hasn’t happened yet then you’re in for a ride. You did truth and CR and spirits are revealing to you, he isnt for you. I honestly think you should re-evaluate your situation with this man, especially if he wants to be with someone else just meeting her. Hope this helps❤️🖤❤️🖤
No offense but this is a sign that he is not for you. Cleanse heal and rest.
CR revealed he isn’t for you. That’s as clear as it gets. You should go into healing. 🙏🏿
Or any girl perhaps
I’d see this as the spirits telling you to let go. It seems like to him you are an option in case he doesn’t end up with that girl.