Hi there,
If my post doesn't belong in this section of the forum, please let me know. I'm new to The Conjure community and I just want to make sure I'm doing everything correctly (especially after coming across Lala's "No Lazy Conjure" post). I've recently completed the beginners bundle a couple of weeks ago and I may have noticed a couple things in my life that may have either spared me or have been removed (i.e. a 10 year relationship). For the beginning bundle: is there anything in particular I truly needed to look for in terms of signs? I have a tendency to miss signs, even if they're dangling in front of my face. I've also managed to burn each of those candles for 2-3 days straight while taking a 3 day break between each one. Right now, I'm looking into certain spells to curate to fit my needs before lighting the next designated candle (Wealth 11, Master 11, Weight Loss). I just want to make sure I'm doing whatever possible to reap the full benefits of Lala's amazing work while holding myself accountable on the work I need to on my end. Hopefully, this makes sense and I look forward to implementing this into my life to gain control.
As already told to you, don't overthink it and don't "try" looking for signs too diligently either. What you seek you will find right? That means creating signs in your mind that may not be there or may not be signs to begin with but your mind is forcing it. Just trust your instincts. Be open and receptive. Everyone's process develops differently, so there's no "regular". That's why it's up to you to develop the habit of listening to and further developing your intuition, instincts and any spiritual gifts you may have.
That's great that you burned all of the candles out. I personally feel that should always be done with beginners. It's not required, but I believe it's better to do, so good for you!
Best of luck to you on your journey! 🖤
i would say as far as signs not to overthink it. depending on your level of receptivity Spirit will use any of your psychic senses to talk to you. this could be through dreams, numbers, feelings such as just feeling sure about something, through other people etc. I would say pay attention to synchronization. that is the main way that Spirit relays messages. If you see something appear multiple times maybe in different forms it’s a message. if it feel important it’s a message. sometimes Spirit could send animal totems, or songs, or words or pictures. it really depends on how they know their signs will make sense to you. i would just be more present & observing so that you don’t miss things “dangling in front of your face”.