I have used this candle on myself.. if you are using this on someone else, like a poi, you have to be certain that they have positive thoughts of you, or it could intensify any negative thoughts or feelings they have. If you search the forum you will see several situations where the relationship ended after this candle because they didn’t do the proper cleansing, healing, and sweetening before hand. Good luck
If depends on your situation, and your relationship to the target. If it’s someone you are currently in a relationship with, I would say absolutely cleanse both of you first, doing this can improve your relationship and help you work through any issues that need to be identified and addressed.
I have used this candle on myself.. if you are using this on someone else, like a poi, you have to be certain that they have positive thoughts of you, or it could intensify any negative thoughts or feelings they have. If you search the forum you will see several situations where the relationship ended after this candle because they didn’t do the proper cleansing, healing, and sweetening before hand. Good luck