I hope I don’t get chastised for this but I have Erzulie Freda candle I’m not ready to work with. Trying to see who has a candle they may want to swap?😬
@Manigoddess sometimes we ask for things that may not be the best choice for us but we are so headstrong that we want what we want no matter what. Sometimes the deities will give it to you but they’ll tell you and show you why it wasn’t the best choice for you.
@AD It’s not that she’s not easy to please because I think she is. For example, if someone promises her something specific like a dozen pink roses with pink champagne in it a box of truffles you can’t bring her two pink flowers, wine and caramel candies. You promised something specific and then you turn around and bring something totally different; we got a problem. Do you understand what I’m saying? It’s not that she’s hard to please What was promised wasn’t granted to her. As far as being demanding, I guess it’s how you define that. For example, a mother always demands the best of her children; she wants them to succeed in whatever they do. Now, if you know you’ve done your best but only could get a C (grade in school) your mother won’t punish you or be disappointed. Why? Because you did your best. Now, if you were dillydallying and not trying your best and you got a C grade most likely you’re going to be in some Trouble. Why? Because you didn’t do your best; you could’ve gotten an A but instead you got a C. She’s (Erzulie Freda) demanding because she knows what her children are and are not capable of.
@Manigoddess I do believe it’s safe working with her. I respect her and I respect and accept her decision(s). I will say this, if she doesn’t bring an ex back to you it’s because that person is not for you, for whatever reasons those are. You may never know those reasons or maybe you will add a later time. But, I do believe she will put a better choice in your path.
@rottieforlife I love your spirit & thank you for the encouragement! Again I’m not fearful & want to work with her but unprepared right now. I’ve asked Papa Legba for permission and have not received confirmation or any sign from Freda just yet. Also I’m in the process of packing to move and her space is going to be set up properly & I’m going be up to the level of service she requires once I’m settled. But for now I wanted to swap candles with someone that may want her candle now instead of placing an order if they had a urgent need to get the candle right away.
If you don’t mind me asking, why do feel you’re not ready to work with Erzulie Freda? Is it fear, is it that you feel unprepared to work with that spirit, not sure what to do?
@TheChosenOne♎️ In my opinion, YES!! I kept asking him for confirmation & everytime he was showing me 333. He popped in my dream & I another time I asked a few seconds later a car drove by & on the license plate it read “Saint P” now I know he’s not a saint but a Lwa but in my spirit I knew that was for me and in my spirit I felt Papa Legba laughing as if he was being a jokester
I feel you and age doesn't count, its experience and what your born into...some don't have a choice in this path. But anyways what your saying it true with any ancestors or spiritual beings of any sort. But something drove you to buy it so you should just hold onto it til it calls upon you. Well you being on this path ...what's understood shouldn't be explained. Blessed be your journey!!
@Manigoddess sometimes we ask for things that may not be the best choice for us but we are so headstrong that we want what we want no matter what. Sometimes the deities will give it to you but they’ll tell you and show you why it wasn’t the best choice for you.
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@AD It’s not that she’s not easy to please because I think she is. For example, if someone promises her something specific like a dozen pink roses with pink champagne in it a box of truffles you can’t bring her two pink flowers, wine and caramel candies. You promised something specific and then you turn around and bring something totally different; we got a problem. Do you understand what I’m saying? It’s not that she’s hard to please What was promised wasn’t granted to her. As far as being demanding, I guess it’s how you define that. For example, a mother always demands the best of her children; she wants them to succeed in whatever they do. Now, if you know you’ve done your best but only could get a C (grade in school) your mother won’t punish you or be disappointed. Why? Because you did your best. Now, if you were dillydallying and not trying your best and you got a C grade most likely you’re going to be in some Trouble. Why? Because you didn’t do your best; you could’ve gotten an A but instead you got a C. She’s (Erzulie Freda) demanding because she knows what her children are and are not capable of.
If you don’t mind me asking, why do feel you’re not ready to work with Erzulie Freda? Is it fear, is it that you feel unprepared to work with that spirit, not sure what to do?