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Candle wait question

So I was waiting to see my target first before lighting obsession. I did and lit it the next day (Wednesday) on Friday I did a Venus conjure candle... Technically it wasn't 3 days.. and now that it's Saturday I was thinking of doing the pentacle of Saturn that works as domination to control the outcome for hen I see him again. Should I wait the 3 days or can o do it today? Mind you, I got the sweetest voice notes from him already and messages that he wants to see me. But I also know he is seeing other people at the moment. Any advice would be appreciated. I'm thankful for this community and Lala's work :)

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Jan 25, 2020

I would wait to see movement from the venus candle before doing the Saturn one. Just give it some space to brew haha.

Can I ask you a question unrelated to candles? You said your person is sending you really sweet voice notes but at the same time is also seeing other people - how do you keep a positive energy about this and keep the faith so it does not ruin any candlework? I am in a similar situation and a lot of times I go in overthinking mode about the 3rd parties which I know will not help me. but I am not quite sure how to banish those thoughts completely so they won't interfere with my candle work.

Alice

Jan 25, 2020

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I trust. I trust in the connection we have. I trust that what's meant to be mine, already is. I'm not going to lie, it does suck big time knowing that right now he's not sending me a "u up?" text because he's with someone else haha it stings. But I have faith on my side, and most importantly, I HAVE MISS LALA'S WORK with me! And so do you! Patience and trust. Knowing that it sucks now but it won't sting later. Building my confidence and self esteem. Feeling at all times that he won't be able to resist me. I don't know your case particularly, but in mine, he kinda just got off a relationship, so I also understand that his dick (sorry the bluntness) is like on holiday mode. So whatever. You can sleep with someone else now, but soon you won't want to. I slowly brew him towards me :) It also helps that I get regular readings from someone else, but I don't know if I can post her info here, I don't want to break any rules. But I do want to know how your case progresses!! I'll hold the intention for you too fellow witchy sister 🤍

Jan 25, 2020

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@maidaceledon thank you so much 💕💕 that does make a lot of sense. I know me and my sp belong together forever because I can always feel it deep down in my heart and in my bones. But my low self esteem and mind always bombard me with doubts and I'm really working on that! I just need to tell the doubts "thanks for trying to protect me but no thanks" and have faith!

My situation is that my SP and I are currently separated after being in a long term relationship. And he's been in contact with someone else who he has told me is just a distraction from us splitting but ive been severely doubting that lol. I believe greatly in manifestation so I know my doubtful mind has manifested all this. I know with Lala's work helping me I can manifest him back fully 🙏🏼👍🏼

Thank you so much for holding good intentions for me. I am doing the same for you 😍💕

Alice

Feb 05, 2020

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Hi SR , just wondering how your situation was doing. So far I haven't seen movement on mine. It's been I think 2 weeks... And tbh for obsession, which I lot the next day I saw him, I even put his... Body fluids. Then I did 4th pentacle to bring him physically to me, however I haven't seen him again 😅 I wanted to reach out and ask about your case. Maybe the power of holding intention for each other helps 🤍

Rachel StarRabbit

Jan 25, 2020

I think wait until next week? Give it time to work for you.