Candles & Children

I didn’t know this! I’ve only done love work but I’ve changed while my son was sleeping. Could this be why I haven’t seen movement?

All I have is spelled candles and it's all new to me

Interesting convo! I’m a newbie to The Conjure but I’ve always worked with my daughter in the home. She’s never in the room as I light candles and speak intentions but she’s here and she is used to seeing candles lit. She’s a teenager now. I’ve never felt like my work impacts her negatively, even with the obsession/domination/hex stuff I’ve done in the past. I do try to do that when she’s sleeping though. I always cleanse with at least sage before and after and have protection for both of us and my home going.

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Yeah with the DA, sweetening and obsession, that's what I am mostly afraid of I don't want to attract any of that type of energy to my kids

From Lala herself. Only you, while conjuring and chanting, but it’s ok for them to be around while it burns. My personal preference would be to do it when I’m alone completely but I know everyone doesn’t have that availability so I’d say just make sure your space is cleansed and protected and be mindful of what you’re bringing in and putting out.

So I can't do the chant and first light the candle with them in the house so I can technically send them outside to play do my chant and candle lighting then after I finish they can come in while it burns?

Good question! Hope someone can answer. I have the same question. Also is It safe to do the candle rituals around them? I usually do my new/full moon rituals with my son the room and never had a bad feeling about it but this is my first time working with candles. Hope someone can answer