Please no judgement.
I have 2 daughters, 13 and 15. I have been with my partner (fiance) 1.5yrs, the eldest wont have anything to do with him, and the younger did at first, but now is been pressured by the eldest. It is a difficult, and he and I are both stumped how to manage this moving forward.
Can anyone suggest something that may aid the toxic situation?
@Kitty Parkes look at it this way that it can also reveal how to address and ease their underlying problem of not accepting change. It could be that they also need to feel secure and be reassured that they are loved despite the change that is taking place and when the underlying issues are revealed it gives you the options of to resolve them in a way that is acceptable to them. The cleansing and healing of them, yourself and the relationships will be beneficial to all of you.
You could also add Truth to the recommended list above to find out exactly what is causing this.
What would I actually say? The situation feels impossible, because both are very loyal to their daddy, even though he has no problems with me and my partner. We're all pleasant, and their daddy has even tried speaking with them about this, but there no budge