Conjure Fam Sweetening/DA Intense Chant Question

I plan to use this candle after my halo healing mars and crossroads. I'm going to use it on myself for SELF LOVE💖 and just wanted a little more clarity regarding my Chant. I know in the booklet it says for sweetening if using it on yourself to Chant "You are as sweet as honey to me" but I'm wondering should my entire chant start with "YOU" if I'm using it on my self for SELF LOVE or is ok if I start with I am?! Example 1:👇🏾 You are as sweet as honey to me You are alluring Love flows through you and to you effortlessly You love yourself more and more by the minute Etc... Or Example 2👇🏾: I am as sweet as honey to me I am alluring I am beautiful Love flows through me and to me effortlessly I love myself more and more by the minute Etc........... Thank you 🤗