D.A. I burnt D.A. attraction over a month ago.

I burnt d.a. after I did unhex, halo, and healing. When I burnt d.a. I wasn't fully expecting love to come into my life. I wasn't trying to dwell on it so I wouldn't stress myself out or mess anything up with energy in anything in the universe. My chant was to attract a man with no kids and who was financially stable. So far I've gotten 1 person who asked for my number never called. Several friend requests on fb half of them have kids and girlfriends, others don't stay in my city. Another person who im really feeling and he's feeling me but he has grown kids (i don't have any) and he recently told me he has herpes that his ex gave him and of course there is no cure.( i have no stds) If I wanted to start a family I couldn't with him because I'm definitely not trying to catch something im trying to get rid of. It's really heartbreaking. Deadly attraction shouldn't mean deadly diseases. Ive been single for 4 years I really feel like giving up. Can I get any words of encouragement?