Da and sweetening

So this guy ive been seeing on the low no strings attached claimed he didn't want a relationship made it all clear n im like cool me either im just playing the field well he suddenly has a "kind of" gf he act all lovey dovey with but im guessing that means they date but he wont use a title yet but hes still been seing me on the side n im like fr? He finally admitted it like after sleeping with 4 times into his new relationship I was around before her so im not home wrecking hes just an a$$ and hes tryna get my ass whooped like stop and why tell me like right after sleeping with me jerk And i liked him alot just wish he would have gave me a real shot so i decide to use da and sweetening on him to see who he wants more or at least give me some dating time to see if we like eachother cuz its just been all fun n games i already lectured him btw saying dont be making girls feel exclusive if theyre not thats messed up your gona hurt her be straight with her like you were me n he was all whatever about it so its up to him what he does but back to the present like a day after lighting sweetening and a few days after da he was peeping my snaps the whole time and first time seeing him at work since lightning the candles out of no where hes going out of his way to come talk to me more like hes never done that ever in months usually a casual we run into eachother but na boy was setting up fake scenarios to "accidentally" come talk to me lol was obvious and then he was practically chasing me down to come talk to meoke 5 more times n im like uhuh thats what i thought ima make you act right lol mean while every damn man in there was practically tripping over themselves to come flirt with me lmao ive never had so much attention in my life and he was watching some of them flirt with me from afar pretending like he wasnt bothered but then why you keep looking lol hows it feel play boy dont start games if you cant keep up lol whatever the outcome may be ima set him straight one way or another dont play women lol if things work out cool if not ill make sure he doesnt do this to girls again lol i just wana be givin the chance for us to get to know eachother properly and see what we working with you know theres alot of vibes there between us i think it scares him lol ill keep you guys updated on the situation