DA & OBSESSION HELP

Hello , I burned Deadly attraction a few weeks ago and I’ve had guys come out the wood works lol I had one guy in particular and he seem like he was into me until he left town and he started acting distant on some days we would not talk ( MIND YOU HE IS A VIRGO) but he is actually “ coming to me “ like my chant said . He will be moving down to my city 1/18 . Even sent me a screenshot of his lease and empty place for me to help him decorate ... So I burned obsession last Tuesday , he is acting more distant than before with communication and I’m really kind of obsessing over HIM ! Lol I have a sweetening candle I’m just contemplating on using it on his difficult a** ! 🙄