Dreaming about the effect of my Obsession candle

So last night I had a rough time sleeping, I woke up first at about 3:36 am and FELT something in my room, I couldn’t help but feel it was a male presence for some reason, but I wasn’t scared and brushed it off and tried to go back to bed. Then I woke up again around 4 and then 5. The last time I woke up it was from a dream, I lit Ms.Lala’s obsession candle about 10 days ago and I used it in someone I’ve recently been getting to know in hopes of having him want to get closer to me and be obsessed with being with me and loving me calling me etc etc. I haven’t seen much movement but we do text daily, and in my dream I was reading texts from the guy who was the target for my candle and he was saying things like “I know we haven’t known each other long but I really like you”, “I feel like I’m just obsessed with you” “I know it’s soon but what do you think about being my girlfriend”, one of the concerns in the back of my head was that some of our mutual friends/ people we know would talk or gossip because some of them dislike me. In my dream he said “I don’t really care what they think, I just really want to be with you” and then I woke up just about breathless and really suddenly. Does anyone know what this could mean? Is spirit trying to reach out to me?