Extra herbs all over candle

Thank you. When I first started buying from Lala, the first candle I lit was healed/unhex/halo and the second was crossroads. I am wearing the protection, healing, and halo alchemy bracelet.

The stomach aches I've had after burning the halo/healed/unhex candle was intense. I have blessings oil that I'm going to wear when I use this candle. I also have the oil that has beauty, sweetening, power & success. I'm going to he wearing all of those when I burn the candle and chant over it. Unfortunately, I have full days where I keep getting crap put on my plate and I have to work on top of that, so I only burn her candles for the max of 6 hours and then do it all over again until the candle is gone. I never want to mess around with fire safety.

I met him... I know who he is. I have a drawing of him, visions, dreams, information, but I only saw him once and haven't seen him since. That being said, I know that the candle is to attract others to me and not about attracting him. I guess that's ok though, because he didn't step up in the way I needed him to. Never got each other's info, and just stared at each other. I think he wanted me to make the first move - no, thank you. Step it up! Be a man! Provide!

I appreciate the advice because yes, a man who doesn't provide or lead in a healthy way, just won't do it for me. I'm 38... I'm not getting any younger.