Hey everyone, just curious to know if this has happened to y’all?
Every time I do work for my target or for myself. I argue with him badly. There were times that I ended the relationship, to go back days later. But it always happens.
i did halo/4POM for the relationship and we ended arguing after I finish the candle.
for example when I did obsession on him, we broke up after. So I did the high John and we got back together.
i did truth, we also argued and I was very close to breaking things up again.
then i did blood Lamour and same thing! NOW aim in the middle of the 3 day unhex/soulpurge/protection ceremony of chaela and last night I was telling him, how I am stressed about things in our relationship and other personal stuff and he just ignored it and he was being insensitive. i didn’t argue, but I did let him know that he didn’t make me feel good and That I didn’t appreciate his coldness. So as of now I’m being distant from him.
and a little TMI here—- but I also don’t feel like having sex! Since I booked the ceremony 🤨🧐
@Silllll I read in your messages that your boyfriend's mother is casting against you guys. Am I correct? If so, try "3rd Pentacle of Saturn." This pentacle offers defense against plots made by others and it will bend the circumstances to your benefit. Chant for your boyfriend to see how his mother is interfering with his relationship with you and that he sides with you and protects you on all levels. Then try the spelled candles "Stop/Destroy Enemies Plans" to stop the mother's plans from harming you guys mentally, physically, and spiritually and then "War/Victorious" so you and your boyfriend will be victorious against the mother's evil plots. You can also use "War/Victorious" so you will win all arguments and discussions with your boyfriend, if you need to.
I have done readings and it always says he loves me very much and that he wants to be with me and our child. But his mother and ex have hexed us multiple times. Even though I believe I have cleaned us and did chant/petition when I lit the halo/4POM for all of that to be removed. I have never lit an unhex candle or with unhex in it and or with healing. I’m hoping that once I do this last candle for us, I will have steady results and if not. Then I’ll move onto better. Which In my readings it has shown that I will meet someone else, soon… and that one is the ONE. So let’s see!🥲
I’m gonna be honest with you…. based on past experiences and what I can see, this isn’t the relationship for you or him. When it flows it’s working, you might even have one moment where cleaning the energy causes an argument but if every time this happens…. spirit is showing you this relationship is a blockage. I am not big on doing work to force a connection or maintain one, I listen to what spirit says and shows me. I learned to let what wasn’t for me go, so I could make room for something better. If you’re hell bent that maybe use Sweeten and if that doesn’t work… you got your answer. I wish you well on your journey ❤️
I forgot so with candles like Halo and Healing you banish and or heal things like “negativity, evil entities, anger, and etc.” So use Mars candles to also protect against those things and evil eye, enemies that come against your relationship with him. Also your target is Stubborn so work with Mercury candles, 1posaturn, Ahari, 1posun. And take your time. Its okay to keep doing Unhex or Halo on a target until you get the results you want. Happy Manifesting.
When you burn Unhex say that “generational curses, hexes, and etc are banishing” When you burn candles like Halo, 4pomoon… and and other cleansing candles say to banish things like “negativity, anger, ego, stubbornness, resistant energies, parasitic energies from him and or your relationship with him” the arguing could be a form of purging but thats a bit much to be arguing after every candle.. I also recommend Healing. And I agree Sweeten him and also use the truth candle to get to the bottom of it because i can imagine that is frustrating. 🙏🏿
Sounds like you have blockages in this relationship or the relationship itself is the blockage. This may not be the person for you, if everything you have tried triggers arguments. What is spirit showing you/telling you. Are you choosing not to acknowledge? What is the root cause of the argument is it showing you something that has to be worked through? Is it showing you he is not concerned with how you feel after communicating it to him. Spirit is giving you the messages, you need to be honest with yourself about the situation and go from there. Good luck.
What was the Truth candle for? If you don't mind me asking..was it to reveal something the relationship ?
You probably need to order DA also
Did you try sweetening ?