Healing Candle/Out of body experience AGAIN?? Or possessed?

I used my healing candle yesterday around 2pm just to get rid of past traumas and insecurities and i happen to re light it due to not being in attendance for it at the time of 11 at night. This morning around 5am after getting off the phone; my healing candle was lit but a lady had came thru in my dream seductive like, i asked her if she was Haitian but she never answered, kept kissing my hands and arms, her voice was mute while she was talking to me but her face turned into like a sinister smirk and I happen to half way open my eyes as I felt them go back a little like last time but I ended up saying, “F- You” and could hear myself struggling to stop, and I immediately broke out of it. Can anyone tell me why has this happened for the second time???