Hi LaLa and sisters,
I'm so heartbroken. I've purchased and used so many candles/rites to bring my love back to me. I'm new still at this and not sure if I did it right. I thought I saw movement because he called more often staying up all night on the phone or during the day as he worked, then the holiday weekend comes, he started tripping and disappeared and avoided seeing me for the entire week prior. I've cried each day since and haven't tried to reach out or do any other work since last week. All he do is break my heart since January. I loved him so much and now since the weekend I've had dreams of him with someone else and an uneasy/hurtful feeling. We've been together 4 years and he was wonderful in the beginning or first half of the relationship but got worse pulling away over time. He devalues, degrade, and disrespect me when i call out his actions. I moved out in July thinking that would wake him up and see his love for me but he got even worse and the lies. I just don't want to want him or my heart to hurt anymore at this point. It's painfull. I cry daily. I just wanted him back the way he loved me in the beginning but that may not have been real. He's a textbook narcissist with a huge ego of himself because he's so good looking and well established.
Hey I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Its so hard wishing that the person they were at the beginning would come back but someone who is a narcissist will never change sadly. There could be many reasons he started to change or perhaps didn't change, but his mask fell off over time. If you have burned unhex, halo and Mars at any point this year, it could mean that he was the issue and that you are being protected. Cliche as it sounds, now is time for healing. Sign up to Chaelas rites for unhex, Soulpurge, Healing and Soultie for YOURSELF not the relationship. Read books about the trauma that narcissistic relationships can cause, start therapy and try to pick up a hobby that you can be engrossed in. The pain will subside quicker than you think!
Any advice and roads I can take on how I can heal ME will be so appreciated from any of you! 🙏
i’m sorry to hear about you being heartbroken & I’m sending you love & healing❤️. However, maybe you moving on is best. if he was nice in the beginning & then started acting differently that could be his true colors coming through. it would be counterproductive to you to hold on to someone who does not value or respect you. I understand that you guys have been together for a long time but sometimes things have to be removed from our path in order for us to receive our blessings. you being with him sounds like it does more harm than good. maybe this situation is a blessing in disguise & your spirit team maybe clearing what no longer serves you so that you can make room for better in the new year.
Just be the best version of YOU that you can be. What is meant for you will find you. 🤗🤎
Hi. You need to put all that effort into loving and healing yourself. You know exactly what he is and it isn't good. There is no cure or candle that will make a person not be a narcissist or evil. You should be considerate of yourself and stop allowing the hurt this man is causing. Now is when you should consider burning HALO, Healing, Mars, and Esteem as a way to cleanse, heal, protect and strengthen your spirit. You're beautiful and deserve to be treated with respect and love. This guy you speak of doesn't deserve you. You deserve more than he'd ever be willing to give. Don't inflict pain and hurt on yourself by chasing him. Be kind to yourself. 🤗🤎