Hi! So I did the devotion rite a month ago for my SP, I noticed a shift, he was being sweeter and wanting to see me and make plans with me. Then his daughter got sick and he cancelled plans with and became distant. Last week he stayed the night at the BM's house he said he's not having sex or entertaining her in any way other than co parenting. I confronted him on Monday I dropped off a gift at his house, he was annoyed but I told him I was just dropping the gift off and that was it. We kind of had an argument not really but I told him its weird he stays at the BM house but he said it's just to take care of the daughter. Then he tells me that I'm weird for showing up at his house. ( I was literally just dropping a gift off I wasn't expecting to see him) but I told him that he always thinks negatively of me and always messages me negative things but he's always defensive of the BM who tricked him into getting pregnant and then tried to force him to marry her. I told him it's upsetting that he's always defending and trying to be a hero for her. Anyways Wednesday he deactivated his Facebook and today I noticed he blocked me on phone. But I need help cause during the week of Thanksgiving I light the Layers 4 pentacle of the moon candle mind you after the devotion rite ( which on Thanksgiving day caught on fire and broke into pieces) then I lit the deadly attraction/ sweetening/ Ahari candle and the deadly attraction. As well as 1st pentacle of the sun. I have several orders of other candles now pending shipment but they haven't shipped yet. Is there anything I should do or just wait? Fyi I just want to mention I know and feel the BM maybe doing some type of magic on him, she has some hold on every time he and get close he becomes closed off to me and then spends time with her for their child. Also he and I are not officially dating it's more of a situationship. I need help please, did I mess up the work from the devotion rite by lighting all these candles!!
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Edited: Dec 09, 2022
Help after Devotion rite
Help after Devotion rite
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Also I don’t think you messed it up by burning candles after devotion if anything we’re layering. I think it’s bc they’re stubborn targets-I know mine is, and bc kids are involved there has to be some communication but those BM’s manipulating the situation. Mine is at the BM’s as we speak and I know for a fact he really don’t even find her attractive, etc
Sorry you’re dealing w/this. I am pretty much going through the same thing w/my boyfriend. I did devotion rite, layered w/halo & healing when that shipment arrived few days later for us both (asking not to remove lala’s prior work). I’ve then since burned half of l’amour, all of intense obsession/tether/ahari , 5th pen of mercury, and 2nd pen of mercury. I’m debating tonight if I should burn a domination candle for them both or a conflict candle. Trying to research to see if I can do them together even. I know in my heart this girl is doing work on him too and I’m trying my hardest to fight back. I’ve had readings and have been told to remove blockages and pretty much that he doesn’t want her and he’s just there for convenience for the kid. I wish you the best of luck and please message me and keep me posted on things that you try I hope we can help each other hun.
I would get a reading on the situation before lighting more candles to find out his true feelings first.