Need some solid advice Conjure family. After losing my spouse the beginning of the year, I have since moved from our old home to a new home to allow myself and our children a new space to grow from such a saddening tragedy. However, I am puzzled as to which candles to work with next. I bought with me UNHEX, CROSSROADS and TRUTH of which I have already semi burned out in that exact order and have not yet finished. Should these be disposed of or can they be reused in my new space? I do NOT want to invite old energy or emotions to my new healing space. I am very apprehensive on moving forward without sound advice.
I really am anxious to begin setting a new tone of growth, peace, and prosperity in my home, my life, businesses and all around and within me and my children. I just don't know where to begin. Is it okay to pick up where I left off at? I also have the Fertility|Protection candle, and Power | Success | Victory, the Eriss Ahari | Manifest | Strengthen, the Good Fortune | Money | Employment, and PURE Bundle | Cleansing | Protection. All of which I could burn simultaneously lol! I want to start the GF and Eriss TODAY but I know I have some more cleansing to do first because I had not finished any of those aforementioned candles yet. BUT THEY WORK FAST AND ARE NOT TO BE PLAYED WITH my whole life has been shaken up and unhealthy bonds have been broken and doors to my future are flying off the hinges... like I'm really SHOOK and I refuse to do this work with lack of skill and proper knowledge.
My deepest concern is that the burning of Crossroads | Blockbuster | Remove Blockages, followed by Truth | Reveal | Get Answers, then Deadly Attraction | Love | Passion bought about the demise of my ex. We toasted to new life and then a few hours later I learn that they had a fatal/ tragic accident. I am still in utter disbelief! I know it sounds far fetched but I am just struggling so hard with the idea that this self-work may be so intense that perhaps he may have been a blockage in my life and someone I needed to cancel and release in order to be free and reach this crossroad I am currently at. It's almost as if they were at attachment I had to sacrifice in order to heal and manifest my purpose because since then things have been strangely moving into a hopeful direction for my future. Its so confusing. Once he had passed, so many answers I had been seeking were immediately revealed. Everything came to the light nearly and all the while I was fighting to maintain a weakened bond. Knowing deep down inside the trust was demolished between us and while I was loyal I needed to know if he were deserving of that but his TRUTH was hidden to deeply beneath his secrecies and private outside lifestyle.
Yet, I was so desperate in the months leading up to his passing to FIX things, that I had purchased, Sweetning| Soften | Calm, and Rekindle| Return Love | Passion, as well as Eriss | Lust Souffle. I even bought Erzulie Freda | Love | Sugar | Beauty because I began lacking self. confidence... NONE of which I have used yet due to the most obvious reason. My lover (object) is no longer physically present, and Im not interested in anyone at this time due to my emotional grieving. However, I do still feel very connected to him. I guilt myself a little for seeking TRUTH so desperately and for beginning such an intense spiritual cleanse that I may have washed him right out of my life and our children's unknowingly. I understand that we must make sacrifices for greater good and even that fate is inevitable but its a very stark coincidence. I need to start doing some serious cord cutting but its difficult when you share children together.
***PLEASE HELP ADVISE ME AS TO WHICH CANDLES ARE BEST TO MOVE FORWARD WITH FIRST. ****
Cleansing(release old energy and any in the house Protection(from any and all type of entity Healing(yourself and family to help get through the rough times,) road opener definitely should be one of the candles in your new home to bring in good wealth, health happiness I hope im right and if i missed something.im sure some one else will fill in. but big hugs to you and your famil and blessings for your new start. it will get alittle rough but you got this and i say that because you have Ms lala candles to help you through. Got u in prayer😍
Also I totally wanted to burn good fortune before anything else but I am so happy I waited 😊
Awe I’m so sorry for your loss. I did halo, healing, intense unhex-halo-healing, soul tie removal with chaela, and goodfortune just lastnight and I had crippling depression, could not get out of bed, etc. And I am feeling so much better now. So I would probably do unhex and pure bundle if I were you, then start with good fortune. I dunno if soul-tie removal is something you’d want to do but it could help you get over the loss, but again depends on how you feel maybe you would like to keep the soul tie. Your children are lucky to have a mom like you 💜
I’m so sorry for the loss and all of the emotions you’re going through, continue to be strong and spiritual. Do not blame yourself or guilt yourself, it’s going to be ok. Sending you love and light 💕💫✨
This post is so powerful. I felt every emotion. My deepest condolences for your loss 💐🫂 I suggest you start off with the PURE Bundle (that you already have) & then Crossroads. If you had Healing, I would've suggested to burn that after the bundle, before Crossroads. After the bundle & Crossroads, I'd then go on to burn Ahari + Power and then Ahari + GF. You are being divinely guided .... continue working on lifting up and protecting yourself and your children 💖
Maybe unhex then calm, that could help, so sorry honestly I’m praying for you guys peace❤️