Ok so heres my situation, I split with my ex/babydad almost 6months ago and I still love him... I bought the lovers return package and so far have burnt sweetening... as he was upset with me. I started seeing signs which include dreaming about him... his name popping up everywhere, certain songs and even his nickname I called him which isnt a popular nickname, and numbers syncs come up alot. I then started rekindle and hes been talking more when he picks up the 2 girls and communicates more and doesnt seem upset with me anymore, so after 4 days I then started to burn rekindle for 2 days and everytime I've tried to snuff it out it's taken a few attempts lol which I seen as good signs... so pls correct me if I'm wrong on any of this.... The problem now is I booked blockbuster conjure and venus conjure the other day to help things along as hes really stubborn and set in his way but I did get my way when we was together on things not on any major demands as I'm not like that not bossy at all. So last night I decided to look at his sisters insta for any xmas pics of my kids as he never sends any and this was prob wrong but all I wanted was to see if she posted any pics of my babies, as his family has me blocked since we split and I come across a post she posted a few hrs before I looked so it was at the top where shes tagged him and some next woman thanking them for an xmas present... so of course i took a look and both of their profile pics are of them together... so now I kno hes has a gf... even though I've asked him multiple times over the course of weeks to just be honest and let me kno if he meets someone as this woman will be around my kids and I have a right to kno who's he has around them.... also when we've spoke about things there where times he sounded like he wants to come back but I honestly feel he thinks I havent changed cos I did run my mouth when something pissed me off and it wasnt often at all but I had 2 babies back to back (2yr and 1yr old) so was prob a bit more stressed than usual and tbh we was really good together and I'm not just saying that I've had previous relationships that was a living hell so I kno the difference and he did say I was his life partner and soulmate. But I did say things I shouldn't of but I'll keep it real and tell you how it is if I'm not happy about something... as I'm not these yes sir no sir type of woman (no offence) and hes so laid back and doesnt stress about anything.. if he was anymore laid back hed be dead lol... thats where we differ, I'm an overthinker and hes total opposite but now I kno why hes been the way he is towards me cos theres a major block being her. If I'm honest here I'm quite intuitive and my gut is telling me even though I've done nothing but cry from last night that there might be still love but hes with her now so wants to be loyal as he was very loyal with me... and it's the honeymoon stage so he prob thinks the sun shines out her arse atm... and I think hes scared to give me a chance incase I do the same thing.... sorry it's a long msg but I just wanted to give as much info as possible So my problem now is this... do i continue with burning rekindle? Do I still do the blockbuster conjure and venus conjure? If I do the ritual should I then finish off rekindle after or leading up to it? As the next candle to be lit is the 4th penticle of venus candle. Or do I just f**k the whole thing off? I'll be honest I love him and I want and miss our family, hence all the candles/rituals and I've never felt this type of love/way before about someone... Or have I wasted a lot of money? Cos he just dont love me anymore as he has moved on and quick but again we got together quite quick so im thinking he might be the type who falls fast...but... I'm hoping it's just a rebound... and these cnadles/rituals work. I'm so unsure what to do and I really need help or advice and guidance please.
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Also to anyone still wondering.. y’all practice tapping into relationship with your personal spirit too because they be knowing us better than us at times. They will tell you which candle to light when.. when it doubt.. pay attention!
4pos is needed she is a blockage.
Yeah I agree, as I'm so new I just wasnt sure how to deal with this situation correctly. So basically im leaving rekindle alone now. Do Tina's blockbuster conjure... will that remove the 3rd party or would/should I still need to get the separation candle. The prob is I dont think the separation candle would come before the venus ritual in particular... also the unhex/halo/healing that shouldn't interfere with any divine 9 I done should it?
Ok so you are already doubting your work...
did you do all of chaela’s ceremonies and am unhex before doing anything or getting anything done?
what candles did you light before any of these? have you done the road opener/blockbuster before any of these?
i can relate to how you feel despite not having kids with mine.. look
imma tell you straight up..
stop checking and dwelling on it.
don’t go fishing anymore. you take her pic, her name, and if you can find her dob and you light the 4POS and layer separation work in that woman too..
ok..: no need to be crying no more. We got the power to control our reality. secondly please I don’t think you are ready for a reading yet due to your current energy.. it can increase chances of the reading coming out in a way that makes you cry more..
because it is your spirit guide messages that knows your thoughts better than you yourself vs. his spirit guide.
ok so first get your head straight for real.
you are not ready for the truth candle.. I can see that!! i can feel high anxiety. you need to light healing for your relationship and self healing candle.
please do not light the truth candle before you do road opener (cross roads) if you never did so before in 3 months.. and until you do the healing work.
AFTER you do healing and what I mentioned, then you make that 4poe a priority, and then if you are itching for the truth; do truth candle.
please please do not light something while having bad vibes as you will get in the way of any rituals you get or any candles you order or light .. get your head straight Because you need to focus and channel good vibes in your workings.. having a lot of faith.
forget the 3D/3P you have some work to do.. would you let something distract you if you was working on a work deadline or a big exam for a degree? No you would focus. That is what you need for all the rituals and candle work.
I recommend you get a reading done. Contact @Dominik or @readingsbyfatima
Also the problem is I live in tje UK so candles tak about a month to get to me... I ordered some on the 29th November and they still havent got here as yet? I dont even have any shipping notification
Thank you both
Men lie. I have male friends that lie to me about girlfriends and we don't have a relationship, children etc. I am like why are you lying? And IG will expose more than a reader, lol.
You need a break up candle. 4POS. Someone else who is more wise about love work can weigh in on that but I know I have heard Tina say with her rituals if there is a 3rd party then you are going to need 4POS. And I believe that is to be true with the rekindle package.
She is innocent, so this might be an issue.. go get a reading to see whats going on. And buy a TRUTH candle to find out whats really going on. With that candle.. everything will be revealed. Because intentions are very big with the universe..