Help needed with candles

I just wanted input on my situation to make sure I've ordered the right candles.My situation is this: I paid my daughter to watch my two boys while I went away to visit in another country. I ended up getting married. We had applied for a travel visa before I left to visit him and it was approved. My husband flew with me home. My boys were aware this was happening. When I returned home and went to pick up my boys who were 13 and 14, my daughter had my sister that I'm not close to wait in the kitchen.When I walked in, I was physically assaulted by my sister, I was only able to leave with my one son.My daughter runs the show in my family and does as she pleases, my parents always back her.A custody battle for my son has now ensued. It is very nasty.I will never speak to my parents again as my mother is pushing this. My son is being manipulated against me. Please help with what candles I should buy for this situation.