I have a very stubborn fiancé that tries to be very dominating with me and our daughter .. It’s either his way or no way and he basically expects us to kiss his butt about everything.. I recently burned Ahari and he was changing back to the man I first met , loving respectful and very helpful and nice but it only lasted a few weeks and now he’s back to his grumpy mean alcoholic self .. I ordered the Addiction candle for him and Sire and deadly attraction but not sure what to try again .. I’ve done stuff with Tina and cleansing with Chaelabre and various candles but maybe I don’t know what I’m doing wrong 😩 he’s really stubborn and head strong and I’m thinking that’s why it’s so hard ... I just want him to be respectful and loving to me and our daughter again and show us love and attention again like he was these last few weeks when I lit Ahari .. even our small child noticed the difference.. I just want him to stay like that for me and our daughter and stop drinking .. sorry this is so long everyone and thank you in advance just want to start off the new year right for our small child and for him and I .. These past few weeks were magical feeling the love from him again and then boom he turned into a grumpy mean man again
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I agree with Armani you’re spending too much time on him. I would be making life incredible for myself honestly. He may not be the one
No I seriously appreciate it 🙏❤️
No offense taken .. I appreciate the advice but the only reason I’m trying so much because he was never like this till I went to a Botanica to get one of my psychical abusive exes to leave me alone and I was dating my current fiancé and he was as perfect and as sweet as could be then , the guy from the Botanica started asking me out for coffee and showing up at my work and then my current fiancé turned into a alcoholic narcissistic mean person that I don’t even recognize.. Seriously after being in one abusive relationship I would never want to be in another and I know even though he doesn’t hit me that the mental abuse is just as bad and not good for our little one but someone told me that the guy from the Botanica did this to get me to leave my current fiancé and get rid of my ex too 😩 that’s why I feel that all this that became of him is my fault for going to that Botanica 😩
No offense.. why would you want to marry someone like this. Spell work or etc will not change him from being who he originally is. I enjoy the spell work for my life, however I refuse to continue to do spell work on a man to change him into something he REALLY ISN’T!! It sounds like you need to leave this man and really seek peace for yourself and wait for the right type of man to come alone. This also sounds like a man who is narcissistic!!!! I say all of this out of love! Use your spell work to better yourself not over some man who sounds like to me he isn’t a good fit for you and your life because you have lowered your standards and it also sounds like he will become abusive at some point.
Unhex. Halo , addiction domination. Maybe work more with Tina as well since he doesn’t like the candles Also layering your work is important with stubborn targets.
After the main candles, 2nd Pentacle of Mars- to fix the root causes Addiction + Ahari- to fix the symptoms of the root cause
Yea we live together and I don’t tell him anything about the candles he just thinks all candles are bad and evil even the ones with the Jesus pictures on them . The only Candles i have got away with lighting are the spelled candles because he thinks I buy them at the store so the house Can smell Good .. but even the Ahari candle I was relighting the other day he told me you better not be doing any kind of voodoo crap he said .. he said I’ll take our daughter and we will be gone if your doing any of that crap in this house
Yes I’m waiting for the addiction to arrive and I have the gain the impossible but he won’t let me light any conjure candles because he thinks all this is devil work and bad .. 😩
Have you done Unhex? It is my personal belief that a lot of addictions are can be related to hexes.
I would say his addiction to alcohol is your base issue. Substance abuse is a MF especially on relationships. Alcohol is mood altering and usually not in a good way for someone who is an alcoholic. I would concentrate on trying to heal that aspect. You have the addiction candle. I've heard some suggest putting it with Gain the Impossible. Ahari.
Ok thank you so much 😊 I’m going to try that
I would keep doing cleansings and unhex etc. to make sure that stagnant energy goes away and then protect any work you do