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Help please 😩😞😞

My husband came home from work yesterday really aggressive and grouchy and I was texting a friend telling them in Spanish that my husband came home like the devil crazy and i accidentally texted him 😩now he’s saying he can’t trust me and that I’m a shit talker and to go f… myself .. and that I’m such a b.tch .. is there any candles I can use of Lalas that may help fix this ? Please we have 3 kids and don’t want the drama to spill over to when he gets home from work please any and all help would be so appreciated.. 🙏

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Ms m

15h

Thank you everyone, I tried everything and had no luck I ended up leaving to the mall with the kids left the dinner on the table because it was two hours after he’ gets off and he still wasn’t home 😞 he hasn’t done this in years , but this weekend is his birthday weekend i forgot to mention that before I feel so miserable that I caused this whole fight and one of our worst ones I was so happy this year was starting off better then ever then I go and send a message to him by accident ruining everything.. I was just so upset that he came home from work so grouchy and crazy and I’m home with our two two year old toddlers , im fighting off a cold and had a doctors appointment for a procedure today that I was very nervous about that they couldn’t even do after all 😩 and I know saying him came home like the devil and everything was bothering him that me and my oldest daughter do when he got home but I was just overwhelmed and trying to talk to someone and then I go and text him by accident 😞 came home with the kids last night and he was sleeping and I slept in my daughters room just to avoid waking him up and starting an argument we still haven’t spoke not sure what else to do .. a spiritual helper told me that he was getting drunk with his friends after work but I don’t know .. I know I created this mess and sorry just wanted to thank everyone for all there advice 🙏❤️ I Have a very stubborn narcissist hunny .. that I’m not sure how mad my message was that it made him this angry

Ms m

15h

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Oh and he didn’t touch the dinner he left it on the counter where me and the kids left it for him he didn’t touch a thing 😞I guess I’m the worse and made a huge mistake sending that message by accident ruining everything 😞 feel sick to my stomach

thorntonkimberly23

11h

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Don’t you do it- get up and get yourself ready to burn!

🔥

Remove that negativity with Halo since you had a spiritual consultation so no need for Unhex … take your eyes off your situation and apply SPIRITUAL PRESSURE!!!

WE gave you strategic advice use it and get your husband back… you can’t fix this in a matter of days it’s going to be a long haul but your marriage / family peace is worth the fight!!!!

Calm your nerves and write down that chant or petition get to work… your tools is your strength along with your love for your husband and family… I’m quite sure you didn’t buy candles for just the good times you bought them just incase some shit pop off and you can rectify the situation!

Halo- burn it to remove negativity and CLEANSE YOUR HUSBAND, HOME, MARRIAGE, FAMILY, AND FINANCES- get up nie let’s get to it

You got to go THROUGH it to GET TO IT!!!!

Crossroads- remove those blockages in communication with you - open up that man’s throat chakra so he can tell you what’s going on you’re his wife intercede on his behalf in your candle work and prayers ok you said he’s a Narcissist and you don’t understand how your message made him this mad … l think he was mad before he got home and got even madder when he read the message

Get up and get your answers to your questions and apply straight PRESSURE!!!

Blessings to your endeavors to achieve your desired outcome in this difficult situation! 🌹🌹🌹

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Ms m

11h

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Thank you so so much this means the world to to me and i needed to hear this

Meme

15h

Someone on another post used simi

Nay Nay

Do you have the reconcile candle? It’s to stop arguments. You can do halo, sweetening and reconcile.

IAMWHOIAM

I would cleanse first to cleanse out the negativity. Then sweetening sounds good. With the sweetening candle, do your own sweetening. Like fix him some of his favorites for dinner. Pour a lot of love into it. Fix yourself up really beautiful. If you have any of the love oils, use them. Don't do too much talking that could lead to you saying the wrong thing. Be patient and let him calm down. Then protect everything, everyone, your relationship/ marriage.

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Ms m

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Thank you so much what if I don’t have sweetening 😩? He said this is unforgivable and I lost all his trust talking mess about him 😞

IAMWHOIAM

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I would try the Simi suggestion below or make my own sweetening with honey/sugar.

meme2390

Well sometimes people need to hear it and you was talking to your friend that’s normal he just having a reason to stay mad he needs to grow up he needs to get over it iam sorry it’s normal … give him some 🫶🏾 cook his favorite meal buy him something and if you have sweetening use it … you can put your name in a jar with water and sugar shake it … you can write his name on paper and cross over it 3 times Forgive (your name) then burn it … use Halo for him or unhex or both

Ms m

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Hi how do I do the sugar jar and the paper with his name on it ? I would definitely like to try this asap please

meme2390

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Put your name in a jar with water and sugar you could use the baby food jar empty it out wash it then use it shake it and say be nice to me be sweet to me forgive me what ever you want …write on a piece of paper his full name horizontally then write vertically over it 3 times Forgive Ms M (your name )Now then burn it

Aprildarling

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Put his name in the sugar bowl. Then the next time you speak to him put get some honey and with your right pointer finger, make the sign of the cross on your tongue so you can speak sweetly to him.

Ma'am C. J. Walker Jr

Have you tried Simi?

Ms m

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No but I do have her .. 🙏 have the spray and candle 🕯️

IAMWHOIAM

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Use the spray/ candle. She works quick. Do your own sweetening while using her ( what I mentioned in the other comment. Not the sweetening candle. Dinner/ Fixing up etc).

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Ms m

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Thank you so very much

soulsearching

Sweetening candle to make him to sweet to you 🩷

thorntonkimberly23

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Thank you so much for your kind words… I’ve been here since 2020 … back then this forum was jumping with kindness and compassionate helping hands we assisted with grace and respect… a lot of the other Vets left … BUT its a few left and we’ll jump in and do what we can and stay out the way of criticism… I’m glad to be of service hoping that it will send signals that we had a real Sisterhood / Brotherhood at one time.

thorntonkimberly23

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It’s simple… to give yourself a visual look on YouTube just type in sugar jar or honey jar and you can see instructions on the videos you choose

meme2390

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You Welcome OG 🫶🏾 and thank you

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