Hello all, I'm so new to this new realm and any advice would be greatly appreciated. I tend to overthink and am somewhat indecisive so I apologize in advance if my story is too long ...
I am trying to heal from a broken heart with someone who I now know is a narcissist and had been lying to me for months about her relationship with her roommate. It's somewhat of a long and complicated situation but ultimately we were "a couple" but not officially, although everyone assumed we were, including this guy. After a year and a half of a beautiful "relationship" she tells me she wants to date others, no reasons given. I found out months later that it wasn't all of a sudden, that they both got drunk and kissed each other and had been sleeping with each other since, hiding it from me and lying each time I brought up my suspicions. The roommate KNEW about our relationship but didn't care, and she kept protecting his identity and manipulated me into thinking I was crazy each time I became emotional about their "friendship". When she finally admitted to it, she said it was purely physical and she had no feelings for him but wouldn't give him up when i begged her to, so instead she kicked me out of her life and kept him instead. It's been months and I'm still hurt and devastated, feeling angst and constant anger towards them, but specifically HIM.
I want to use Hex on HIM, as I want him to feel the pain he's caused me. I know she deserves a lot of the credit and I know she's not a good human being, but deep down I still love her and don't want to regret using Hex on her as well. I want to heal and will purchase the Tranquility package (Halo, Healing, etc) in hopes to purge the negative energy towards them, but I don't know if that's enough - will I not feel closure unless I know karma will come back to him?
Thanks to all in advance.
I dislike that you have experienced this. It’s a horrible feeling. But like everyone said it doesn’t warrant Hex. 4POS for sure. I had to deal with someone that did hurt my kids (mentally and emotionally) as well as my self created a riff in my household and issues in my relationship. I was going to Hex them for sure I have the candle. But I had to look at the whole picture even me dealing and battling for two and a half years was did not warrant me to Hex them (although the life track they have had they need it but not from me) I did the 4POS on Saturday and I already see movement!! Your intentions are everything but you should definitely Halo and Heal to gain better decrement. Now hey you will do what you may and that is ok too! Be sure the work you do bares no guilt and is warranted. Best wishes to you in your journey
Thank you, I appreciate the explanation. It’s more than her having partners - it’s the lies and cheating behind my back, but I hear you nonetheless
Hex is a big NO....Lala herself said dont use it for things like that....its generational....u hex someone for raping your child, murder with malice thats intentional....things like that....this partner was confused and wants to have many partners and thats her right. Let her be sexual....do work on u and she will come around. No hex.
Hex instructions CLEARLY say IN BOLD DO NOT USE FOR BREAK UPS!
This does NOT require hex at all !!! Don’t destroy someone’s life for temporary feelings . Remember it takes two ! But don’t destroy someone life for bad choices that will destroy them and their kids forever . Hex would not only destroy his life but his possible kids life and so on . You can use 4POS because it’s less harmful but would do what you want . But I really think you need to literally heal yourself . You’re stuck in your feelings right now and all that you’re thinking about is just anger and don’t use anger to try to make yourself better , trust me you’ll regret it . Just breathe , heal , and work on yourself first .
I would say do all the healing on yourself first then reevaluate you will find once you are healed your views change.. and you will be thinking more out of logic instead of emotion ..
4POS...NOT HEX... I understand you are upset but this is not a situation that warrants The HEX candle... Did you read the description of the Hex candle... Also...try Halo, the Healing for yourself...