So quite the dilemma I just had a surreal dream down to several details of my ex using loving magic on me to get us back together and I need to know what to do to keep him away and keep him from destroying my marriage . I am happily married and my ex is a blessing blocker . He and I were together for nearly two years in what became a toxic relationship and we were as they like to say twin flames but I know for a fact my relationship with him was to teach me and show me my path to a better life and to get in touch with my spirituality and my spiritual gifts . When I first started becoming a customer of The Conjure family I was using love work to get him back until I realized my spiritual team wanted better for me and I stopped going against their spiritual guidance . I gave my ex a year after he broke up with me a few months shy off from being 2 yrs together and wrote 2 letters one peaceful this is the end letter and one letter that cursed him all the way outttt and told his ass about himself !! I had enough of the using…lying…manipulating ways…his toxic energy! I lost so much of my power and self in that relationship because I would give him everything and do everything in the relationship never leaving enough for me…not doing right by myself…staying silent too long and too much and allowing him to walk all over me as he also betrayed my trust so many times . Before we got together he was my friend of 10 yrs but his narcissistic sociopath personality traits were only seen when we were together and when I sent those letters I was absolutely out of this world DONE with him ! Some time later I moved on my blessings became unblocked and I starting dating my now Husband and moved to the South and away from the West Coast .
I am happy I don’t want nor need to go back to that EVER again . I always had hoped he would change into a better human being as I would have loved our real cheerleder friendship before we got together romantically to be what it was before (he clearly was wearing a mask then too) . I choose to be a better human being on a daily (the self bettering journey that never stops).
Im not wiling go through what he put me through mentally no matter the better changes he’s made since my last letter I sent him . I high key feel he has NEGATIVE damn near demonic spiritual parasites attached to him . I been wanting to buy him like at least 3 Soul Purge ceremonies…he wasn’t too right before during the relationship…true colors came out but after we ended and my light wasn’t around him anymore all he had left was to rot in his dark room by Himself…now he sees what he lost and I’m loving and living my happily ever after he’s suffering while seeing me happy…spying on me through all kinds of ways !
So all that to say how to I keep him away from me and my dreams and destroying my marriage…how can I keep the magic he’s using against me to try to tether and bind me back into his life…the vision I dreamed today SCARED ME so bad !! All he wants is me to himself and to win me back no matter how ! Y’all should of seen his grin the whole time while he ruined my marriage and got what he wanted which was me back in his life (this was all in my dream)…I woke UP in a sweat !! My Husband is at work and I never wanted so much but to hold him in my arms and keep him away from that destruction!
I got half a mind to use my Conjure War candle…I do have my Papa Legba candle and my Damballah Wedo candle allll on DECK…I also have La La’s protection spells from her Academy online…what candles would yall recommend…I was thinking I should but myself Cloak and Mars candle but I’m also trying to wait til Friday to lite my Halo and Mars or Unhex Healing Halo candle because I just lit my Money Pot yesterday…I also have the Halo Moon candle…then I was thinking of buying a reverse candle…I appreciate the listen/reading this
everyone and thank you in advance for your time and assistance.
Asè and Good healing and light to you all !
You could also try the Truth candle because sometimes our dreams are about our fears
@EmpathRookie There are so many great options available for you to use especially the conjure ones. Unhex is always a great one to remove any and all work against you. You could use any of these 6POMars, 3POSaturn, 4POMoon, 2POMercury, Mars and there are some great intense options too. Take time to read through the descriptions of the candles and feel what you are lead to use and most importantly the strategy to take. Maybe also add Healing to it, to heal yourself from that relationship.