The guy I am dating is beginning to pull away from me... he told me I was being “to impatient” with him and I can feel the spark leaving. What should I do 😩
Don’t beg for his communication you feeding his damn ego. He would get the same energy he gives. He don’t have time for you than stop giving him yours. If he wants you. He will come around and if not baby girl move around. Enjoy your life.
Sometimes if you switch it up. They get scared and come back around. Don’t sweat it. Give him space, do you. Stop asking for his company and he will start to wonder and if he doesn’t wonder and want to come closer he’s not your guy. Take care of you. Heal you, love you and do your DA on you.
Baby you’re giving too much energy into him when he’s barely giving you anything. You are STARVING yourself , your energy and your spirit to a man that wouldn’t even give you 1/4th or anything he had. You know how I know? I’ve been there. Look at your text message vs his. Never tell a man what you want, need or expect from him. You are giving him access to not only play you but pretend to be the man he isn’t for you. What are your expectations ? “ idk I’ll see when the right man comes to me “ Never give your hand or show it until he shows his.
I don’t mean to come off so rah rah but men like that piss me off! Especially when you bare your soul - you hsve all your answers by the way he reacted during your pregnancy scare ... get DA and 3pent of Venus and attract your dream man boo.
I get it but you are giving too much. You have been dating for almost 6 months . Says one thing about a man when he wants to be with a woman in a committed relationship… hell cannot stop him from being with that woman in a committed relationship. Don’t you see he just gives you just enough attention to string you along and to keep you in his back pocket.
Also if someone is not consistent in simple communication that is a big red flag there hun - date other people never limit yourself ! Strive for that love you want !
I think a lot of times we as women put all our eggs into one basket and then get fucked over - im not saying you should sleep with different men at the same time but if you are into that no judgement at all but dating a few people until the one is consistent ! Men do it all the time ! They never put all their eggs in one basket when dating.
??? It’s true we need to date few people at a time do we need to sex them all no not at all ! Until one is consistent then yea!! This generation of men are stupid AF.
For one why are you only dating him ? Second you need to stop having any expectations until he shows you they he can meet you where you are! Third don’t be so available.
You just need to play it cool.. guys tend to get scared and run away if you come off too strong and yalls are just dating right.. if you ain’t got no time to waste then you know what to do.
Yes we’ve been dating since early December so I thought it was a great time to tell him how I feel but I guess not. I’ve been playing it cool, haven’t been reaching out to him and giving him his space but I’m in love with him (haven’t told him and I don’t plan on telling him) so I kind of dont want to lose him
Don’t beg for his communication you feeding his damn ego. He would get the same energy he gives. He don’t have time for you than stop giving him yours. If he wants you. He will come around and if not baby girl move around. Enjoy your life.
Sometimes if you switch it up. They get scared and come back around. Don’t sweat it. Give him space, do you. Stop asking for his company and he will start to wonder and if he doesn’t wonder and want to come closer he’s not your guy. Take care of you. Heal you, love you and do your DA on you.
@TiffTiff 🧿🧿🧿 is right...gotta stack the bench girl. 😆
Baby you’re giving too much energy into him when he’s barely giving you anything. You are STARVING yourself , your energy and your spirit to a man that wouldn’t even give you 1/4th or anything he had. You know how I know? I’ve been there. Look at your text message vs his. Never tell a man what you want, need or expect from him. You are giving him access to not only play you but pretend to be the man he isn’t for you. What are your expectations ? “ idk I’ll see when the right man comes to me “ Never give your hand or show it until he shows his.
How long have you been dating ?
[@TiffTiff 🧿🧿🧿] You took the words right out of my mouth!!!
I don’t mean to come off so rah rah but men like that piss me off! Especially when you bare your soul - you hsve all your answers by the way he reacted during your pregnancy scare ... get DA and 3pent of Venus and attract your dream man boo.
I get it but you are giving too much. You have been dating for almost 6 months . Says one thing about a man when he wants to be with a woman in a committed relationship… hell cannot stop him from being with that woman in a committed relationship. Don’t you see he just gives you just enough attention to string you along and to keep you in his back pocket.
Also if someone is not consistent in simple communication that is a big red flag there hun - date other people never limit yourself ! Strive for that love you want !
I think a lot of times we as women put all our eggs into one basket and then get fucked over - im not saying you should sleep with different men at the same time but if you are into that no judgement at all but dating a few people until the one is consistent ! Men do it all the time ! They never put all their eggs in one basket when dating.
Date other people until one is consistent sis.
Now see ..... I didn’t know that.
For one why are you only dating him ? Second you need to stop having any expectations until he shows you they he can meet you where you are! Third don’t be so available.
You just need to play it cool.. guys tend to get scared and run away if you come off too strong and yalls are just dating right.. if you ain’t got no time to waste then you know what to do.
What is making him say that? What action(s ) are you displaying?
What is making him say that? What action(s ) are you displaying?