Okay Erzulie Dantor with helping me speak up more!!! :) so as you may have read me and Dantor are tight. and now my grandfather doesn’t speak to me. Mind you, he is blind, we do not interact and is a full assist. i have now observed that he doesn’t even want to be in the same room as me. Again, Dantor!!! He lived a very abusive life (not shaming him) but abused his wife (my gma Who raised me and now his caregiver) his children (my mom). like literally his blind self fought to get up from the table before finishing eating when I entered the room!!!!
i have been attacked a lot in my life by men. to know this is the kind of guard she provides and I’ve been around HIM and low key not known HER my whole life is really blowing me. How do you deal with this? Someone Dantor is actively protecting you from and now YOUR energy feels like a threat to them 😂
thank you all for your insight!
Erzulie Dantor is special to me. While I no longer keep an altar to her, she is represented by the Black Madonna, the patron saint of both Poland and Haiti. I was born in Poland. Her image has been with me my whole life and now I see, and it has been confirmed through a reading with a Manmbo, that Dantó is my protector. I personally let her do what she needs to do. I think she knows best so I defer to het to keep undesirables away from me. While I don’t have a formal altar set up anymore, I do have her statue and burn scented oil in her honor on Saturdays and leave her a glass of red wine.