I want love to find me naturally. I don’t want anyone to be “spelled“ in the sense that it is forced. I have a man that I met and I feel a strong connection with. The problem is we work together and I’ve always felt weird about those situations. I thought about buying deadly attraction, but I want him to actually want me. He’s recently sent me a message through a friend/coworker telling her to tell me that he missed me (something out of the norm for him because he’s very introverted and very private). When I texted him telling him I got his message, he responded telling me he wanted to just tell me he still thinks about me and that he will make an effort too see me. I’ve only considered DA in hopes that something would happen to allow us to see where things go. I’ve purchased candles to help with finances in the hopes that my work schedule wouldn’t be an issue.... My question is, does the work only work when it’s meant to be? should I fall back and continue to let things happen naturally? I don’t want to force anything. I just hate that we work different sched that make it so we can’t see each other. Any advice? Would DA work in my advantage?
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Ok I just lede work... I have to give back story. So I mentioned he was my manager which is why nothing happened between us. I ended up getting a promotion and texted him and was like “you’re not my manager no more. I’m your equal so what’s up?!” Lol. the problem is I got promoted during the busiest tome for us at work and my hours are now exactly opposite of his when at first we worked the same days and times. After our peak season, he had some family issues to deal with (either mom or grandma) so he took some weeks from work and I gave him his space. Lately I’ve been really thinking about him so I texted him to let him know. We texted for a little bit but he it Was right before work started. Once it got crazy we stopped talking. A couple weeks went by and he came into my office looking for me. He saw a girl in there and asked if she talks to me. She said yea. So he was like “tell her I miss her.” With some base in his voice lol. My friend/ coworker said “I’ll text her right now” And he said “yes you do that.” Lol... so I ended up contacting him right after my friend called me. He told me he just wanted me to know he misses and thinks about me. He also said he was going to leave work late one night to see me. Today he came in and I can’t explain the feeling. My while body got hot. We have such a strong connection, I know when he’s coming towards new without hearing or seeing him. So I felt his presence and it made me look towards the door. And there he was walking in. This “thing“ between us has been going on for over a year now. He remembers my hire date and while we were talking before I got promoted, he said that my hire date/ the day we met was a special day for him. The way he said it, it was as if it was meant to be a thought that just came out lol. I just get so frustrated because I feel as though we would’ve been progressed if it weren’t for my hours. I now work the opposite of his schedule. When he’s off. I’m at work and I work overnight. So I bought the candles related to financial success in hopes that I could both finally be working on what I’m passionate about while also being with bae lol.
Try frequently texting him. Talk about random shit. Things y’all can have in common. Maybe spirit is saying “hey, it’s already there, you don’t really need candle for THIS particular situation” maybe you can use other candles for another. If you feel you’d want faster movement, the candles will heighten what exist between y’all. You can’t force someone to like or love you. If he’s already feeling you, you’re half way there 😉
All magick amplifies what is already there (and meant to be) or what is close to the horizon. It is not forcing if it is already meant to be. It’s speeding it up. Moving the energy to work in your favor.
@Ife drop the gems sis or back me up!! What's meant to be will be!! I've burned unhex halo and healing.... shit hit the fan! I chanted just like I do when I pray....yes I am a Christian. When the spirits move babe they move. To me it's no different than asking God to heal a marriage or anything else your heart desires....I don't declare myself a bruja at all...you're not forcing anything if you ask me. If it's not meant to happen the spirits gon kick that shit back...trust me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know!!!
The way I see it is this: spirit can say no. If it's absolutely not meant for you then the universe will not let it happen. Work can (and has) failed in the past. That being said, DA amplifies your natural gifts; you're ALREADY beautiful/desirable/whatever but DA makes it a little bit more obvious. TBH I can't see how it would hurt anything or make it feel forced. You can't make someone fall in love with you if the feelings don't exist.
Wow this is crazy I literally I just picked up my phone to ask the same question in the forum.Yesterday I purchased DA ,obsession and sweeting and other candles I’m sitting here thinking I love this stubborn ass Taurus and miss him but I want natural not forced...