I’m baaaaaack

No one else in our way except for him haha I will def do tether once we are in a good place. Thank you for your help! ❤️🙏🏻

@Cindy T. i'm with you and saw your post about 4POS. i also lit 4POS to separate my target and 3rd party, now ready to do the rekindle/lover candles. but after halo/healing i'm not sure if that's the right thing to do. even if she comes back into my life, how can i allow myself to trust her again. we have to consider what kind of person our target is - have they changed since leaving us? our their values the same, will they lie/cheat again, are they willing to put the work in to regaining our trust and our relationship? for me, if my target has changed and is willing to put in the work, then i would put in the work too. but i feel if not and it's me doing all the work/chase, then it's wasted time and energy that we could be putting on manifesting a new person who has all the qualities/trustworthiness we desire. i struggle with it daily myself. my next candle is supposed to be sweetnening but i'm like do i really want you back?

Sweetening is a good idea, if you ever run into each other then there won’t be any hard feelings or animosity. Is a struggle I share too, but as time heals us, time will tell too.

We were. Very much in love. We have a child together and had planned to get married