I need people to stop always asking me for things... I’m way too kind and people take advantage of that ! I’m tired of it!
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May 09, 2020
I understand more than I want to. I found I just had to practice saying no and it gets easier. Some of them will go away on their own anyway because they know they're wrong and over do it.
I’m just saying, $5.00, that’s all @Vavaseaur! You remember that one time you needed 50 cents at the bus stop in 5th grade, and I gave you 75 cents instead?!
When people know that you are kind hearted you’re done because they’re always going to take your kindness for weakness because they know that you’ll say yes. It never fails. However, when people hear resounding no they know not to keep asking because you don’t deviate from your answer, NO! I know it’s hard because the same situation used to happen to me until I started seeing now and after a while they knew not to ask me because the answer was always going to be capital NO.
Forgive me for saying this but, YOU have to learn how to say NO. You’re going to have people always asking for something or other; however, when you learn how to consistently say no after a while (the same) people will stop asking because they know you’ll say no.
Protect your spaces with one or more of these:4th Pentacle of the Moon6th Pentacle of Mars3rd Pentacle of Saturn MarsBanishing Chant Fiery Wall of Protection
Girl Being a Virgo I give give give! We are so helpful to others ! Ik I am Mfs always take ! I need people to give to me instead I never ask for anything...hell I don’t even like to ask unless I truly need it ... ,but people have always taken advantage of me and I need it to stop ASAP so I can start thinking of me I’m not even selfish more like selfless
Virgo here; Halo & Mars, baby. Halo. And. Mars. You will *stop giving a damn* (Halo) and people will stop trying to use you (Mars).*With Halo, you will start feelin yourself more. Like, nah...f*ck that! NO MORE!! You'll still be you, just way less of softy. Still a marshmellow, but with a titanium wall protecting your marshmellowness.Listennn...I lit Halo back in October. Ain't been the same since! #IGiveThanks
I understand more than I want to. I found I just had to practice saying no and it gets easier. Some of them will go away on their own anyway because they know they're wrong and over do it.
@Ife Lolol 😂💵
@Vavaseaur No, you didn’t. 😂
@Vavaseaur How about $4.50? I’m just $5.00 short for my combo meal at Pappadeaux’s!
Spell check is the devil! Lol. *Until I started saying no
Some people, not everyone is like that.
When people know that you are kind hearted you’re done because they’re always going to take your kindness for weakness because they know that you’ll say yes. It never fails. However, when people hear resounding no they know not to keep asking because you don’t deviate from your answer, NO! I know it’s hard because the same situation used to happen to me until I started seeing now and after a while they knew not to ask me because the answer was always going to be capital NO.
You know what ik smh ...I’m not even mad at you my boyfriend tells me this it’s like compelled to say yea it’s annoying..
You know what ik smh ...I’m not even mad at you my boyfriend tells me this it’s like compelled to say yea it’s annoying..
Forgive me for saying this but, YOU have to learn how to say NO. You’re going to have people always asking for something or other; however, when you learn how to consistently say no after a while (the same) people will stop asking because they know you’ll say no.
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@Ife so we can choose any one of them to protect our space
Protect your spaces with one or more of these: 4th Pentacle of the Moon 6th Pentacle of Mars 3rd Pentacle of Saturn Mars Banishing Chant Fiery Wall of Protection
Girl Being a Virgo I give give give! We are so helpful to others ! Ik I am Mfs always take ! I need people to give to me instead I never ask for anything...hell I don’t even like to ask unless I truly need it ... ,but people have always taken advantage of me and I need it to stop ASAP so I can start thinking of me I’m not even selfish more like selfless
I feel the same way always using you and don’t never return the favor when it’s time for you to ask them for something or to do something