So my last relationship was abusive and I met a guy in Nov that feels right and he is seemingly what I prayed for however everytime I inquire about being serious he pulls away and I have a heavy anxiety attack and I think I made him think I'm crazy but I have separation anxiety. So I really want him to pull back and eventually commit but also how do I break my anxiety I get so panic mode when he don't call or I think he letting me go and that's been how I've been for years I lost both my parents and have been through a lot but I honestly just want to be happy and have a love for me. What do I need and where do I start. I already have Halo, loyalty, Mars, healing and willpower but do I need sweetness and Ahari or DA what ?
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Hi, ChaelaBre just posted her May schedule at soulpurge.com She has her Blessings Jar ceremony and a self-love one! She’s having a quick sale code “April40” for 40%off- I think the sale ends Wednesday at 11:59 pm.
Also try the sexy goddess meditation on YouTube to attract him closer too you and boost your confidence as well. Its by manifest fast with jasmine….. the meditations on her channel also help to make great chants for your candles too
I use to go through the same thing with separation anxiety affecting my relationships. I personally had to just healing it and pour into myself, halo and still would be great as a first step then healing all reasons you think you have the anxiety. Also esteem because sometimes anxiety is just negative self talk that needs to be worked through and replaced with positive thoughts. And use sweetening on yourself to yourself
I have actually now had a detailed read of the responses above - I agree with everyone on the healing journey that is clearly needed. Additionally, as I know your end goal is to win this man’s heart I actually wouldn’t recommend rekindle as that is for reigniting relationships that have ended which it doesn’t seem like yours has. I would suggest Fidelity on him, DA and Bella on yourself, and 3rd and 4th pentacles of Venus. I also love the Bella/Lust Eriss. Hope this helps!
Hello darling, I hope you get your man with Lala’s candles and I think the people in the posts above have some helpful suggestions! Outside of this, if you don’t mind I would love to recommend what I believe to be a life changing book called Attached. It will explain so much about what you are going through and what is going on in his mind!
Hi. I would do Unhex, Halo, and Crossroads, Healing and Mars spelled all on you. I would burn them all the way out. Then I would do the Mercury Rites and The Sun rite before starting the love/rekindle candles. If possible I would definitely participate in Chaela’s 3 day Intensive Unhex/Soul Purge/Protection. I would consider buying Lala’s Unhex/Halo/Healing intense candle at her next sale. If possible I would buy more than one, just so you always have one around. Anxiety and panic can be healed. If money were no object I would suggest deeper tissue type massage or something like Thai massage 3-5x a month. (3-5x a week initially would be even better but any kind of regular interval maintained for a while would be extremely beneficial). I would layer the healing massage schedule with lots of Halo, Healing, and Mars candles. If possible I would definitely consider doing 4th pentacle of the moon, 3rd pentacle of Saturn and maybe 2nd pentacle of Mars monthly or as needed for a little while. I really like all of the Mars candles. They are so protective and I’m thinking if you get your protection really layered, like to where you can see it working, that may allow you to relax more easily- this would support your healing. Chaela has lots of healing, nurturing self-love type ceremonies. I really think she has an incredible healing gift/talent. Neurologically speaking, wherever and whenever you can be gentle with yourself- it’s extremely healing. Oh, the Guardian soufflé- I feel like that has helped me HUGELY with anxiety. It’s so protective. I feel like it’s almost like you have a security detail. If possible I would suggest you focus your powers on your healing for the first month or two (or three). That doesn’t mean ditch him. It just means you’re taking care of yourself. I’m pretty positive people can jump timelines and transcend time and space in a way that is WAY more real than most realize. Healing is the key. ❤️♥️🧡💛💚💙💜 🦋🌏🦋🌎🦋🌍 ✨🕯✨🕯✨🕯💥
You should get still for your anxiety definitely do halo and crossroads then maybe rekindle just a suggestion hope this helps