If you don't have any of your P.O.I personal items, can you use an item that he gave you? Like a necklace he gave to you yeeeaaaars ago? This is referring to using the rekindle bundle to bring an ex back, etc.
Also, when playing music do you play any music that is good for your particular situation and is it played while or after chanting?
Music after chant
It’s your necklace with your DNA, so no.