In desperate need of advice!!

Hi Conjurers! I have a very intense situation. I've been seeing a man for the past 3 years. It's been a roller coaster. The back story is I've known this person for close to 20 years. In the last year and a half this person has fallen apart. They lost their job of 15 years. I noticed severe mental health issues, mainly symptoms of bipolarism. They have fallen into abusing alcohol as a coping mechanism. I tried to push them to see a psychiatrist to get put on meds because of things I have witnessed. He isn't a bad person he has just lost their way. He was doing good there for a few going to AA and anger managment but was still not accepting he needed to be put on meds. When I had him convinced to see a doctor he had a panic attack and said he was not crazy and doesn't want to be locked in a padded room and then bailed on the appointment. Now he was just arrested for a DUI and he is looking at 2-7 years. His bail is $20k, the family and I don't have bail money. He went with a public defender, but they want him to plea out. Instead of bailing him out we would rather use the money for an attorney that will argue he needs therapy and forced rehab. He doesn't need jail he needs forced rehab and psychiatric treatment. He is scared and said he is locked up with a bunch of gang bangers. Even if they lock him up they will not be treating the underlying health problems that are making him make poor decisons or act erratic. In our culture it is hard to accept mental illness. Secondly, minorities with no money always get a bad rap. They are underrepresented in the legal system because they can't afford good legal assistance. He is set for pretrial this Friday. I lit halo weeks ago for him and I before all this happend. Things were ok. I'm stocked up on several candles. I need his case to be swayed in the direction of rehab and psychiatric treatment not jail. I have halo, court, road opener, in the house right now, i have another halo, mars, unhex, and papa legba on it's way in the mail. Please can anyone give me some guidance. I know he has fallen into a deep depression. Where he is locked up at they allow him to have a tablet for texting and visitation. No in person visits! He hasn't been responding to my texts much. His court date for pretrial is this Friday. Someone please guide me!!