Intense - Deadly Attraction/ Sweetening/ Ahari

I have Ahari/DA/Sweetening in one candle and can't find a description on how to use it, but you say, this candle is done on me NOT on a target, like my spouse. So, for example, I chant, "I am a talented and powerful goddess and all know and respect that, people are attracted to me and the things I do, people are sweet to me and kind and respectful. I get what I want." Something like that should be chanted???

This chant sounds more like Bella, I would say something more so on the lines John/Jane doe is attracted to me, loves me unconditionally and so forth.

Do not use a picture of your target. Only you.