Love & Heal 🥀

There is definitely some manipulation in the mix. I’m sure you both have added to the issues within your marriage but it’s seem as though your the only one taking blame. He’s wants space and time, give that to him. You have to not only light the candles, you have to also do your part. Everything he’s asking of you do it. I’m sure you also need that space and time. You both need to heal And work on self. Jump into things you like to do. Get dressed and go to a friends house, to the movies even alone. Then out to dinner alone at the bar too at a restaurant. Or invite you a friend. This season is about taking care and finding you in you. Mending you will mend y’all. And whether that’s mending together or apart only spirit knows. But be gentle on you. Let this cycle take its course. You will be okay :)

Lala says the candles start working even before burning them. While you're away, consider praying "I call in the support of the unburned candles and ask that they begin working on my behalf now/immediately." in addition to the other prayers you do.

Your time away from your husband might be good. For both of you to get some space.

And I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but please consider getting a really good marriage therapist once he begins sweetening up to the idea of communicating and reconciling. Healing a damaged relationship is a very long road and y'all don't have to do it alone.

Thanks for getting me together y’all. Sometimes you need people to be like “sis, chill out” and y’all are doing that in the most kind and supportive way. Much respect:

Keep praying and just because you haven’t received them doesn’t mean they aren’t working. My unhex start working before I received it … Trust and believe everything gonna work out … don’t lose your man, unfortunately I got tired of it and left mines and now I’m missing him like crazy but after finding the Conjure family I know he’ll be back. We don’t talk, see each other or nothing I let him fall into the hands of a jealous white woman and recently found out she hexed us and was the reason for our separation.. I’ve been told she has multiple spells on us but all that is about to change and the only reason I’m going to fight for him cause I was told by 3 readers he’s miserable and still loves me he’s been also coming in my dreams for help. I’m bout to get my man’s back I can’t wait to hear your testimony cause it’s going to work out baby!!!

You said your “important candles” didn’t arrive yet. But believe it or not, healing is important. It’s those candles like Halo, healing, crossroads (or mercury) that will play a major role in healing this situation. After a couple of years of trial and error, I finally figured that out.

Hi. God and the Holy Spirit ( and all my ancestors and my dad who has passed) brought me to Lala in either late 2020 or early 2021. I sat on it. I sat on the knowledge and the access. I wanted to be sure, or that’s what I told myself. In hindsight, I think it was that I was so embroiled in spiritual warfare, I could not see or think straight. Finally in November 2021 I placed my order. Originally I came here for the 6th pentacle of Mars. Then I found out I gotta start with Unhex and Halo and Crossroads. I finally ordered them. Got my candles in December 2021. Burned them in December 2021. Then I don’t remember if money was holding me back, but I think I placed two more orders, at least one more, before I ordered what I came for. Anyway, my point is I had been under siege. Years into a corrupted legal nightmare I could not escape. I offered the enemies my entitlements - just to gtf away from them. This offer was the equivalent of minimum 7 figures but had the potential to be 8. Those people hate me. They hate me more than they like money. To not lose all my civil rights I had to lawyer up. They came at me. I had entitlements they would not let me forfeit. They tried to destroy me, and take my freedom. It’s been going on almost 4 years. At times we had no heat in the winter, no refrigerator- totally relying on the generosity of neighbors, terrified to answer the door, the phone, to go anywhere. I’m telling you this because it was this bad and I had the knowledge of how to fix it and what to do, and I sat on stuff. Now it’s almost May. The candles were so obviously beyond ‘magic’... 💥 💥 💥 I made the decision to fight back hard with the resources (candles and rites and ceremonies) Lala makes available. I cannot say to much, this is a public forum ... I am now kicking-ass, totally ready for the winner’s circle, every financial ‘gamble’ I took to get us what we needed (candles and rites) has now more than paid for itself. We got out of the very bad place, over 3,000 miles away, we got back up, we got family, we got a whole other jurisdiction shielding us. Its been intense, scary at times. I knew we had one shot left. My point is, through the spiritual work, you can and will transcend time and space. Like ‘jumping’ timelines. It’s ok if you don’t have the candles you need in your hands today. They will come when they come. All the spirits and Angels got you. Some one who wanted me dead lives near Chicago. I lived 1500 miles SW. My protection candles left GA and drove to Illinois, spent a few days cruising there. Then came to me. I truly believe they somehow made their way to Illinois to check out who they were gonna be protecting me from. This happened twice. But it has never happened to the orders without protection candles. Here’s my best tip; If possible do rites with Lala. In the beginning if you can do the sun rite to bless all your spiritual work hence forth it will be AMAZING If you can do both Mercury Rites, 2nd pentacle (achieve the impossible) and 5th pentacle to breakdown barriers... I can testify to achieving the impossible and breaking down barriers. Keep up with protection work. It is extremely powerful. ChaelaBre has protection and healing ceremonies at soulpurge.com They have powerfully changed my life. I try to do a few every month with her. I think Tina has rituals that are focused on love and rekindling. (I’ve never tried Tina, I’m not on Instagram but she also has an outstanding reputation for being gifted in her areas of focus) For healing, protection, cleansing I strongly recommend including Soul Purge in your routine. You’re gonna have the tools to transcend time and space, to powerfully change your life, to control your destiny. I was apparently aiming so low. I just wanted protection. Then I wanted to be able to move somewhere ‘safe’. I’m out. I’m more than ‘safe’. I feel like the blessings raining down on me are galactic in size. I lit my first candle December 5th 2021. I never imagined that by May I would be where I am now. I don’t think I imagined this as a possibility if I died and was reborn with decades ahead of me to pursue this path. You got this. ❤️❤️♥️❤️✨🕯💥💃🏽🕺🧿👍✅

Give It time… you just burned it today. Avoid all arguments and allow him some space and time

The candles that I only one or two delivers in 3 days my orders I ordered first (large orders) haven’t made it yet so I’m thinking you order a sweetening it’ll come in 3 days