❤️ love problems need urgent advice

I need some honest advice - I’m in a relationship for 14 years and the relationship was almost perfect We were so happy together.. planning on having kids and buying a house etc ..Approximately 1 year ago the problems started he was treating me different and avoiding me —-2019 we decided to take a little break and stay in the same apartment.. I was heart broken when I found out he was cheating I Found messages and conversations it was something new he had not done this before and started making mistakes. We are still together in the same apartment but for the past 8.months no sex and we sleep in different beds. I confronted and told him to move out and he kept saying yes but never leaves. I consultated a few psychic because I was feeling confused and frustrated and din’t understand why he would cheat and stay with me, And was told he had work done to leave me and a separation job done , he is not himself we don’t almost talk and We don’t sleep together. I try getting help and had something done to remove what ever blockage he has , is helping a little , I noticed a small changed he started talking to me again and invited me out to dinner a few times. But I feel he is not himself yet ☹️I need answers .....? I lost a lot of money and no one is really helping—- he pays all bills at home Like nothing happen and is acting like nothing happen. I try to talk about everything but he avoids me and changes the subjects.. at the beginning he was going crazy out Thursday Friday Saturday and Sunday.. now he is home every weekend doesn’t go anywhere. What should I do.. .? I was told his ex and his mom had worked done on us.. and this girl that he saw a few times did the separation job..I don’t wanna give up what should I do...?????help