I'm curious if there are peole here who have done personal healing + positively influenced a "I don't know what I want" (or other commitment fears) target into a healthy stable LTR using candles (and inner work) I'm imagining so... but curious if anyone knows of someone who has. I tend to have this attitude that if a man doesn't already know he wants me, I won't waste my time... but perhaps I am naive in that stance. :-).
I may follow Ife's suggested sequence... at least up to the Truth candle and see if it's worthwhile to proceed.