Hello family,
I'm new to the Conjure family and honestly don't know what I'm doing. I've been in love with the same man for going on 7 years and he has done everything under the sun to me but still I've tried. Begging for a relationship when for some reason it'll never happen. So I've tried this journey. I've done Halo, Healing, Intense da/sweetening. I have unhex, power and Erzulie. Legba, rekindle and ahari are on the way. last night I felt darkness and ordered hex, separation and ruin, and reveal the unknown. Just seems like things aren't going like I'd hoped. And I've suffered from severe depression and anxiety. A lot to do with this person. These may be my last candles as I'm not sure if it's meant for me or I could possibly just be hoping for something that's not going to happen. I've been off depression meds for some time because they may l made things worse but I'm speaking with my doctor today regarding my anxiety. Maybe with medication and back to some type of spiritual journey there will be hope for me. You all have helped out a lot and I enjoyed talking with you. I truly wish everyone the best outcome with this journey. Take care all!
Just an fyi, I have not figured out how to respond to messages yet. 🤦🏾♀️ I have read the few that I've received and just want to thank the ones who have sent a message for reaching out to me. Just don't want anyone to think that I'm ignoring them. Thank you for providing clarity and encouragement. I will figure out how to respond soon I hope. ☺
Can anyone provide more clarity for my comment below please? I'm just trying to understand things better and although my emotions are very much involved and although I do love this person, he without a doubt is not a "good" person. Every woman he encounters he damages and destroys without a care in the world. Yes I fell in love with a narcissistic, manipulative, evil person but I'm not alone. Why should he be able to continue to do this with multiple women and damage their lives? Sorry for the rambling but here's the initial comment...
When I read the previous forums regarding the hex candle that Lala had in the past, ppl were using it on their exes and such. What is the difference with this hex and if it can't be used, why make it available for purchase? Just trying to gain clarity. When can it be used?
I recommend getting Soul Purge Cleanse & Soul Tie Removal for yourself only
I will keep you lifted up sis👑
Lots of hugs💕
You all have no idea how much I appreciate all the support! 7 long years of fighting is just so hard to picture just letting go of at the moment. But I'm going to put it in spirits hands. I also have an 8 year old daughter who has never really seen her mother happy. So this is all just a lot right now and gaining control over my life is extremely important to me. Whether the candles work for me or not, I'm so happy to have found you all!
Sending you Hugs! I think your Relationship with your Person was over znd Spirit will step in to Block what will no longet serve you for your Highest Good! There is good in Goodbye sometimes Love. Lala's Candles can give and bring you Peace and Healing, but you need to take Care of yourself before Love can come into your Life. When the Real Deal Love walks in your Life, you will never have to chase or Beg for their Attention! This Journey is for your Healing first. You got this! And you have lots of emotional support from this Conjure Family! ❤💕❤💕
@Hopeful_in_Healing I’ve been in your same position. Dealing with depression and anxiety. I’m on meds and have a therapist that I talk to whenever I have a bad day. Speaking from experience.....everything gets better over time. I started meditating, doing yoga and listening to brain stimulation music. Once you realize how valuable you are. You become at peace. Heal yourself first. I wouldn’t do hex, It’ll do more harm to your healing than you’ll think. Once you heal yourself and begin to glow that man will realize he messed up. By that time you my realize you deserve better. We are queens!! You are a queen. When you’re done crying fix your crown and remember who you are. Sending hugs your way 🤗
Sending you Hugs 🤗 and peace
Let me tell you my story maybe a little bit. I haven’t burn any Lala candles yet as am in uk so no shipment 📦 for me right now and I have had to heal by reading people stories about self love and self care ,when people post videos of their candles I watch and pray with that video. And just two weeks of that has helped me heal alot . I think all we all are saying is never give up Take care of yourself 1st and everything will work of just right . Tell yourself you are powerful and you are beautiful soon you will meet that one person who will show you sooo much love and care but 1st you need to work on yourself or you will keep making the same mistakes.
Honestly it sounds like you need to do work focusing on yourself first. Heal, be patient, then try again. Also, don't obsess over the relationship. If it's meant to be it will. DO NOT use hex as a result of emotions. Sending you hugs and love!
@Hopeful_in_Healing u said you’re new to the Conjure family correct? So that means u need to give it some time! Some say it takes several months to see movement! The signs don’t come that fast! For some it may be overnight but u have to manifest it, allow your ancestors to do the work, and sit back! I want my shit to come instantly too but it unfortunately doesn’t work like that! U may have to find other things to occupy your mind while the magic is being dealt with but trying to ponder every second will drive u crazy asf! Set it and forget it💯
Please do not use hex on this person! Order another healing for yourself and try to find way to raise your vibrations. ☮️
I’ll say work on yourself, you should never feel unworthy to the point where u beg for love. Pls, work all candles on yourself. Self love is a beautiful thing, I learnt a lot from this forum. But the most important was working on myself.