My birthday is Sunday-ritual recommendations?

My birthday Is this Sunday June 21st the Summer solstice. (I’m a Gemini/Cancer cusp.

This day there will also be a solar eclipse in Cancer and we will be in mercury retrograde. 😖

Do y’all have any recommendations on any rituals I can do to harness the power of the eclipse, the solstice and my birthday? What would be best for me to do, or a specific candle to use?