since I don’t wanna 4POS the most recent man date I stupidly started loving in no time after all those dates.. and I already did War on him very recently (to undo or slightly reverse $ work I did on him) after the last straw after he tried to take advantage of me using auntie’s $ candles.. if y’all remember he cheated like everyone else and used me all this time by now acting as if we was only about sex (one sided from him—he knew I never agreed to that.. I made it clear.)
umm would a STFU be a good idea on him for all the rachet people he chases to stop talking to and interacting with him?
also I want to figure out how to do a mirror or guilt on him while I know there is no candle named that but need tips on what stuff I could use for those? I know I could do ahari but what else?
and am out of domination candle and believe that it shouldn’t be used on most people or situations without being sure of how we are using it or why..
I know what you are saying but we belong to one of the industries I work in for a while now and it is a small world. I have lit healing on us and even just on me multiple times with regards to him.
this is more of a I need to show someone who started to become more intentionally verbally abusive to me the mirror because he doesn’t see his mistakes. That is why I want him to have some guilt with the mirroring, so he doesn’t keep this cycle, even with anyone else, now or later.. I was thinking to light Cloak yes, but also lighting Addiction.
It is not just about me. I still care about him hence why I kept my War chant light/soft on him. I have tried to remove my feelings from him...
but something keeps pulling us back to talking etc energetically even when I have tried to walk away before. I have tried to reason with myself that maybe he has some vampiric type of narc energy since he comes across one, now that I realize it.
and yes I have intense unhex halo healing lit on both of us as we speak. it pis more so to keep it cordial due to shared industry in which people gossip more than others, although I am not sure he is mentally stable or mature; magic isn’t to change personalities… What I sense and notice is he is friends with and talks to others who openly practice or associate with doing magic. I don’t think their magic is strong or that they really know what they are doing but I can tell that a couple of them do left hand work and head work…
I honestly wouldn't even put your energy into trying to stop ppl from talking to him. At this point heal and attract new genuine love with the other candles. And be sure to use truth to get the new person's real intentions before you waste your candles on those who don't deserve it. Imo.🤷🏽♀️
I hope I understood the story correctly. But why not just get rid of him all together? Remove all the work you did for him with unhex, and then cloak him from yourself so you don't even have to worry about him. Then Mars for protection and sealing your work.