Need ur guys help

Ok so I have this ex I hate he never loved me played games and was community dick . I like his friend who is from the same city as me and also know my bro but hes quite about his feeling and so am I but I feel like he's quiet because of my ex being his friend and all .... but my ex isn't a loyal and genuine friend either to him so I need something to get him to reveal his blurp out his true intentions and fuck up so that he can let go of his ass and find ease in being with me .. I truly feel he is my soul mate. Even when he is thinking of me I know I feel it i have been dreaming of this man for the past week literally every day . Please help