Open to suggestions

My world has been crazy these last week... My sister and I had an absolute falling out, my side just disappeared, my job is acting crazy, and now my grandmother is sick sick (like discussing wills with me sick. I’ve been on the phone with her doctors everyday since Wednesday). This ain’t nothing but the devil. I relit my mars candle and prayed. My soul still feels unsettled. May I have suggestions on candles that you burns? My only real concern is my grandmother. I can get another job if these people want to play.