Own your part!

Funny story. I was in a hoodoo group on Facebook and this girl posted that she needed a sweetening spell for her ex's family and friends because they don't like her and they're blocking their efforts of getting back together. To make an extremely long story slightly shorter, I know this chick. Well, I know of her. She's my friend's ex and I was a part of the legion of people who told him not to get back with her. She's messy. She's a drama queen. They argued constantly. She hung around his job all the time and got him fired. She picks fights with random strangers and expects him to defend her. He's gotten beat up and arrested because of her shenanigans. It took them months to break up. She wouldn't take no for an answer. She follows him around, hiding in bushes. She slept outside of his window and almost got him in trouble with his landlord. I could go on and on, suffice to say, there is a VERY good reason why his family and friends don't like her. Bitch is NUTS! And my friend is a lot happier without her. After they broke up he had to move and switch jobs and basically start his whole life over from scratch. He blocked her on social media and got a new phone number. He's finally over her and he's doing very well and has been very happy without her. I don't care what spell she casts, we're going to continue to block her efforts because it's a toxic relationship that needs to be over. Remember what Lala said! You guys come here to this group and tell us whatever you feel you need to tell us in order to get advice, but there's so much more under the surface that we'll never know, and you'll never mention (because you probably don't find fault in it). That's why Lala wants us to self reflect and heal FIRST! Because otherwise you won't get what you want, and there will actually be a very good, legitimate reason for it that you won't be able to see. Most of the time if you heal, I mean heal FOR REAL, you'll realize that you don't need that man back, that hex doesn't need to be placed, it's not worth it to sweeten that person. Own your part. You can't keep asking the spirits to bail you out of messes you created yourself.